Let's create a conversational post on how to positively cope
I want to create a conversational post on how to positively cope with our struggles. If you are respectful and kind, feel free to join. I would like to create this as I'm having a tough time with getting consistent user messages, and I just feel ignored so much of the time. Maybe you feel the same, maybe not.
So what is one thing you would tell yourself 10 years ago that is positive and would help you to cope? Go and answer lol it is up to you, just a suggestion.
@AnonCompanion6720 good idea 💕 glad you here
I'll just hug maybe 😮 dunnno! What will you say?
I guess that I would say to myself 10 years ago "You are about to go through one of he most painful periods of your life. It will last a long time, But you will come out the other side a much better person. You will be more empathetic and better able to connect to the world. You will think at times that you can't do this. But you can."@AnonCompanion6720
I think I'd go with "You do not have to hold yourself to a higher standard than you hold others to. Just because you have difficulty with something, that doesn't mean you are worthless - it just means you are like everyone else." @AnonCompanion6720
You are enough hun. You don’t need to have a gf to be validated. And when you notice someone is playing you believe in yourself. You can make yourself happy. Just figure out who you are first.
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Just take the time to figure out who you are before anything else.
