Introduce yourself.
Hi my name is Bec.
I have been suffering since I was 14.
Everyday is a struggle and recovery is a life long journey
I'm vanna age isn't real because time isn't real I date people I like things have been fucked up for a while but in in love with every day and every inch of this earth I'm q feminist and I want to help anyone I can I spread positivity
Hellooo, my name is Chase, I'm 14, I'm homosexual and non-binary. 8ish months ago I went to a kids mental health clinic but I lied a lot and was told that "all teens feel that way" and I got discharged and I've never felt worse. I've been self-harm since I was 9/10 and a year ago is when I started to cut. I'm tired 24/7 and my entire body hurts all the time. I also see black figure and feel taps on my body at weird moments and I always feel like someone is there when no one is.
I'm also an angry feminist punk and I HATE when people say they hate someone then hang out with them all the time.
I hear you. Like when someone uses you says they will be your best friend for life then someone better comes along and they're gone at a drop of a penny trust me I've had my fair share of those people. That's why I have trust issues and get depressed a lot I'm here if you need to talk :)
My best advice for you would be to get the help of a therapist and get into a medical treatment. It will help you a lot and help balance some of the chemicals in your brain. This will help improve your mood and get you into a healthy path in where you can start making progress into understanding what's going on with you a lot better. "All teens go through that" is a scapegoat that they used. While it is true that to some extent teens go through the anger and rage it is not to the extent of hallucinations. That is an indicator that there is an imbalance going on which can only be helped with the proper treatment.
Best of luck and I hope you feel better soon.
Hello all. I think I have reached a point where I can no longer deal with my state of depression alone. Hence, why I joined 7 cups of tea. I recently came to terms that I wont graduate college. I dropped out because the money needed is just not there and I was getting more and more in debt. I thought I would be okay with this decision but everyone around me has been getting their degrees. In my family education is held in such a high standard that I have basically become the only one without a college degree. They don't say it to me but I can see the disappointment in their eyes when ever there is a family event. Hell, I have even been getting less and less invites to such events. For example this Sunday my cousin is baptizing her daughter and I was the only one without an invite. Funny...how in reality they are not even bothering to hide really.
Well that's my intro I think.
Hello....I have been struggling with depression for over 20 years now. I have good days and bad days, (i have more bad than good days) I do not have a very good support system, recently had a stroke and am not able to work. have no one (no friends at all) to talk to. i hope i will be able to find support here, as i feel that time is running out for me.
Hi everyone. I just joined 7 Cups after talking with someone. This is a really cool community of people who help each other with growth and healing. I'm excited to learn more and be a part of it. I've been struggling with depression for a long time but recently it's been in full swing since I went through a breakup that completely shattered me. I've been struggling with self harm and suicidal stuff for a while and it's pretty hard to get through the day. Thank you all so much for your selfless work and listening to these stories.
Hello...
So, I have anxiety and depression, but haven't been fully diagnosed yet. Started having panic attacks when I was about 14. They aren't as bad now, but I'm still struggling. In January 2015, I became so depressed (and for no reason) that I would cry just trying to do laundry. That's when I couldn't hide it anymore. I was too scared to say anything, but thankfully my boyfriend took notice and vocalized his concern. After that, I talked to a couple of my friends who had suffered from anxiety and depression as well, and I started going on Tumblr a lot, which really helped. I'm in a better place now, never been suicidal, but I just don't feel properly supported irl so I need somewhere to go to talk. I found this site through Tumblr. So far, it seems like a pretty good place to be.
@lightasafeather, hey there! I also found this place through Tumblr.
I'm really glad you had your boyfriend was honest and vocal with you; that communication can make all of the difference. You deserve someone like that :D It's great you're in a better place now, but I know that sometimes the goings can get tough. This is an absolutely fabulous place to get some extra support. Welcome to the community!
My name is addison and i struggle with self harm. Ive been clean for 2 months and every day is a struggle. Everytime i see the scars i feel ashamed. These feelings make me very vulnerable emotionally. Whenever i start a relationship i give them too much of myself, Physically and emotionally and i just end up getting hurt even more. So yeah, thats me and who i am.
@Addisonbritton, welcome to the community!
Two months is a really big deal to be clean, and I know what it's like to look at your scars and just be uncomfortable overall with them, like that everyone will notice if they're not covered. The good news is, most won't recognize it, most won't be looking out for it.
Know that you're in good hands here; we'll do whatever we can to make things easier. :D
Hello.. call me Scarlett. I've been struggling with self harm and severe anxiety since... maybe even before preschool. Looking back I remember I would slam my face into my bed when I was angry or hit my legs with wooden spoons/ whip them with skewers. Mental illness floods my gene pool. I'm a cocktail of bullsh*t. I have an addiction to pasta which is my comfort food, I'm a bulimic so no matter how much I eat I try to somehow go back and pretend I didnt eat all of that.. but if one thing is good, I'm over 3 months clean of self harm. I'm very very proud to say that because I haven't been clean this long since Dec of 2013. I need help. I need motivation. I've tried reaching out to my parents but my dad is an alchoholic and my mom threatens me and doesn't care at all saying mental illness is a clutch for children to feel sane. Its just simply not true. I need to know it's okay... I need some kind of motivation or inspiration. Bc im back to the drawing board and ready to start over, but I refuse to do it alone. Its why I keep relapsing. I'm left in my room for hours on end to overthink and to just self destruct..
@ScarWinchester, hey there, Scarlett!
My self harm was really deeply rooted for me as well, starting when I was very young. I do want to say that three months is a really long time to be clean, and you're on the right track to recovery from self harm, and that's... If I can be honest, that's just amazing. That's one of the hardest things I've ever had to do, but it was probably one of the most rewarding. So the joy I feel from that is immense.
Parents sometimes have a really hard time understanding mental illness, I've noticed. Perhaps it's a generational thing, I have no idea, but I'm sorry to hear your parents don't take it seriously. But do know that here, it is serious, and we're here to help. If you're having a bad day, we're here to help, alright? The fact that you're here just shows what you said: "I refuse to do it alone." The good news is, you'll never have to do it alone. You're very strong, I really sincerely welcome you to the community. <3
I'm Liv. I'm 14 years old. I'm really depressed about my weight, I feel so self conscious about it. Because the truth is I'm fat I can see it and I'm pretty sure everyone else can see it. I make myself throw up after every meal. But I'm a worrier so when I get nervous or worry about something I eat then I throw up again it's a long circle really. I haven't told anyone, this is my first time writing and putting this out there. So yea that's me for ya
@LivHart2011, hey Liv, welcome to the community!
It took such strength for you to be able to tell us that; sometimes one of the hardest parts is getting down in words what you're feeling, you know? Coming to that realization in the form of being able to tell someone, that's powerful stuff. I hope you know, that you are amazing, and that you're a person that's deserving of happiness, no matter what. We're here for you, you never have to face this alone.
Hi...Just call me Dirge for now...just turned 20 in may...I'm not so good socially but I'm new here I've been fighting with self harm and depression since I was 12. Diagnosed with depressive bipolar, ADD, OCD, social anxiety, dilusions and minor hallucinations, onset of schizophrenia. So basically I don't have friends to talk to or confide in. I'm not just here looking for help but maybe I can offer something to someone else. I'm a girl with an opened mind and damaged heart but I don't know what else to say here really...
@DirgesNewSong, welcome to the community, Dirge! :D Sounds like you got quite a bit on your plate, but do know that you're in the right community if you're looking for someone you can lean on, if you're looking to find people who you can trust. You've been through so much and you're so freaking strong for being able to deal with everything.
Thank you its nice being welcomed c:
