Vent?

So btw this went down in a span of only 20 to 30 minutes at most.

so my sister was cleaning up a bit then mom came home and said something like “ you didn’t clean it looks like crap in here all you did was put the clothing from in that room onto the hallway” my sister “ what am I supposed to do put them back in the spare room?”

mom got bad and said something like “give my your phone go to your room and I better not see you for the rest of the night and I don’t want to see you tomorrow either!” Yes she raised her voice when she said that.

I had surgery on my back I had a spinal infusion September 12th im not comfortable cleaning just yet because I rather not have my mother telling me to clean and ordering me to. If she wouldn’t have ordered me to clean or forced me to etc I would have done it on my own accord and do it my self but no.

so my clean and moms is way different

my cleaning: tidying up cleaning all the tables sweeping and maybe mopping and j say clean the tables I mean near very clean a couple things left on it that needs to be on it

moms cleaning: basically cleaning it spotless or deep cleaning it or half deep cleaning everything in the house.

so mom said tonight she will set alarm for 6 in the morning and waking us up early early and making us clean all day take our phones away and not letting us in our rooms.

man’s we will be deep cleaning she said something like if y’all were to clean here and there a little bit we wouldn’t be in this position. For the record if I do she gets on to me still saying it looks like crap and I didn’t clean when I did.

she said sometimes she doesn’t even want to come home or she is down and she just wants to walk away.

you don’t say that to your children no matter how old they are or what you are going threw you just don’t do that, it could cause that child wanting to end themselfs or go into deep depression. Or wanting to take no contact and move out as soon as possible.

then she said she failed as a parent and she didn’t raid us right and she should have been way harder on us all.