Skip to main content Skip to bottom nav

Sad and Depressed

Kckay July 16th, 2023

The person i was with me is with someone else. I feel so sad. Our friendship is lost. I miss him. Very hard going through everyday. He was one person I spoke to everyday and shared every part of my day

25
MeaningfulSilence July 16th, 2023

@Kckay

Hello Kckay, sorry for your pain, i understand how difficult it is to lose someone with whom there was a deep connection.

Hope that to join for sharing can alleviate a bit your sadness, if possible don't bottle up your pain.

Sending you good vibes 🌸

bestVase7265 July 17th, 2023

That sounds really tough. It can take a while to heal and find your way to the other side. Sending strength and peace. @Kckay

Kckay OP July 17th, 2023

Thank you poeple. He just texted to ask how I am doing. I couldn't ignore but it makes me feel anxious and sad again

5 replies
MeaningfulSilence July 17th, 2023

@Kckay

Hi Kckay!

So he cares to know how you are doing. Maybe I did not understand well the situation, I thought he's a dear friend you lost because he's now engaged and you two can't interact as it was before, but I wonder if he was more than that for you, because you feel bad also if he texted you?

3 replies
Kckay OP July 17th, 2023

@MeaningfulSilence


We liked each other and he lost interest sometime back. But we continued to be involved and I still had feelings for him. He told me about this new person in his life and this made me anxious sad replaced and also felt a loss as i cannot be the same with him anymore. I feel I lost my happy place. he texted to check up on me today after 3 days but I still feel bad cos I lost him to someone else.

2 replies
load more
load more
bestVase7265 July 18th, 2023

It is all one step at a time. Lean on us here for a bit to talk about how you are feeling on a daily basis. It helps. @Kckay

5 replies
load more
load more
matchaLover89 July 17th, 2023

@Kckay Hi I'm Celine :) I'm so sorry you have to go through this. Just know that whatever your feeling, it's all completely valid. Sometimes a good cry is just what you need to let it all out and feel better. If they left you, then they truly don't deserve you. If someone is meant to be, they will do whatever it takes to stay by your side. They would never choose someone else over you. Everything will work out in the end. It'll be hard, but you'll see that as the days and weeks go by, you'll start to miss them less and less and you'll start relying on yourself.

1 reply
Kckay OP July 17th, 2023

Hi Celine


Thanks for your message. Yes I am trying to do whatever to forget him but everyday is a challenge.. yes i certainly want to feel better . Missing the person is the hard part

load more
Cheyenne2010 July 25th, 2023

Hi I am new, but what Celine said is true. If they left, you then that means that they weren't good enough for you. I know how sad it is and how depressing you might feel. But everything will get better. And it is good that you went to this website to talk about it. Talking to someone about your problem is the bravest thing you can do to get better. And I hope you do indeed. feel better.