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lovelyBookworm57 September 12th, 2023

I'm exhausted guys... Am I that bad in English? I wanted to study for certificate in level C1 in English and they told me I'm not ready for it. I feel like a huge dissapointment because I really need this certificate to get the job I want. I can't loose 2 years for both levels. I really don't know what to do... Beside I graduated last month and people expect me to do something significant with my life... And here I am. Struggling with depression and don't know what to do anymore...

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Tinywhisper11 September 12th, 2023

@lovelyBookworm57 ok first calm down while I hug you.❤❤ Sweetie if getting that certificate is important to you. Then 2 years is no big deal. If not then find and do what you want to. Has for worrying about expectations from other people, they should be proud of you no matter what and if they ain't. They know where the door is

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LoveMyMoonflowers September 12th, 2023

@Tinywhisper11

Agreed 💛

lovelyBookworm57 OP September 12th, 2023

Thank you so much❤️💖

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TimewiseHeart September 12th, 2023

@lovelyBookworm57

You're definitely not alone in facing challenges like this, and it doesn't make you any less capable or deserving of success.

Wanting to pursue a C1 level in English is a fantastic goal, and it's clear that you're determined to make it happen. Receiving feedback that you're not quite ready for it right now doesn't mean you won't get there eventually. It can actually be an opportunity to focus on areas that need improvement and build a stronger foundation.

Feeling like a disappointment is a tough emotion to handle, but it's important to remember that your worth isn't solely defined by this one setback. You've just graduated, which is a significant achievement in itself, and you have time to explore different paths and options. The job market can be competitive, but your journey is unique, and success comes in many forms and at different times for everyone.💙

bestVase7265 September 13th, 2023

Who said that you aren't ready? How can they be sure? What would you have to do to be ready? Think about those basic things as you plot a path forward. @lovelyBookworm57