Having an emotionally unavailable husband doesn't help
I entered into my love marriage with alot of baggage.ย I had so many expectations but all got ruined. He is there with me to support financially but he is not there with me emotionally. He is all focused about work and that also he is struggling. I understand the pressure and struggle he is undergoing but I really can't help with my emotions.ย
@FaithMonk9473
Hiya faith, it's been a while since I've seen you around, so it's really good to hear from you.
You can acknowledge your partner's struggles and understand their pressures, while also acknowledging your own needs and the lack you feel in them being fulfilled.
Emotional support is a strong pillar of any relationship, I believe, and you do deserve to have a safe and welcoming space for your emotions.ย
How do you feel about the current situation communication-wise with your partner? Do you think spending some quality time together and getting to talk about each other's feelings could be helpful in feeling less alone with your struggles?ย
I do hope y'all are able to work through your struggles in time.๐
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Hi Sunny.. Yeah its been long time.. Hope you're doing well in your break..ย
Yes I have communicated my feelings but they all go flat as he is busy with work so no time for expressing love ๐ ๐ย
I guess I have to go through my misery by myself and fall into his terms to accept that he has no time apart from work..
I am glad that you guys understand and support..ย
So thankful to get your response.. Sunny iz always there to brighten up my day.. ๐ย
@FaithMonk9473
Yuss, ups and downs, that's life xD we keep crawling forward hehe!๐
It's real sad when people excuse lack of time specially when you're trying to communicate and express how you feel. I wish he'd take time to reflect on his behavior and be more considerate towards you. :(ย
Not cool how someone's lack for emotional quotient is leading you to feel miserable and alone, Faith, my heart goes out to you and yes yes, it's times like these 7 cups can be really a saviour hehe, you are always welcome here and will always have a place to share how you feel, while feeling supported and cared for.๐ค
Aw hehe yes, always here to brighten up, Faithyyy!๐
@FaithMonk9473 Hello, I am sorry to hear that you are not feeling well. Asking for help is a good way to feel better. You deserve to be listened to without judgment. If you want to talk to me, you can leave me a message and we will explore your emotions together.