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User Profile: softWords17
softWords17 May 3rd

First of all hello to all.


I joined this app at a time in my life when I was very low and sad. I spoke to someone as a general request and it was really helpful. then I myself became a listener and heard many stories.


sometimes you just want to be heard, no suggestions, no advice, we just need someone to listen. I guess this is the best app for that.


Ok now, Today, I wanted to share something , it’s a Friday night.

I had this Friday night dilemma at one point in my life, where every week working for 5 days, I needed to do something on Friday, go somewhere, enjoy, etc etc. but sometime when it didn’t happen, I would go in dilemma, why I don’t have anyone , why am I alone so many thoughts. In that process, I made some wrong decisions, going out with wrong people, wrong choices that affect you both physically and mentally. I don’t know why it was , but I always needed someone to be there with me on Friday. Speaking of that , I don’t have many friends, whoever I met was selfish , jealous or too busy to talk. It surprises me how people can forget all the good times that we had , and move on with their lives like nothing happened. How easily a person who talks to you everyday and suddenly stops. I don’t know , I had few people like that , initially I missed them, then I was angry, but now I don’t have anything for them just surprised to see how easy it was for them. In this process you forget to trust people and share anything with them. Hence 7cups.


I hope If you have read till here, you didn’t find it boring.

I have some things I need to do since it’s again a “Friday night”. But I have learned from my mistakes and honestly if you don’t learn , life keeps repeating those lessons. So I think I have more wisdom now. That’s all you are left with wisdom.


ok so thanks for reading . Take care, have a great weekend.

I hope I will write something again very soon.

🤗😇


and one more thing, if I can go back in time this is what I would have told myself - take it easy, this too shall pass.


byee 🤗❤️❤️



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@softWords17 

Hello. Thank you for sharing. Yes. This is a good place to let it out and find someone who has similar experiences. I also joined 7 Cups when I was feeling low. Sharing here helps me to feel less alone. It also helps me to vent some of the thoughts that I have bottled up inside. I also have had people in my life that I was close to suddenly disappear. It's hurtful. I don't have very many friends right now. They are all busy with their own families. I go out on my own and I am ok with that if I really want to go. But I know it would be nice to hang out with a group of people and just have fun every once in a while. 

I just wanted to let you know that you are not alone. Wishing that the sun will rise soon and banish the clouds away. 

 

User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 May 15th

@softWords17 gives you a giant tiny hug ❤❤ I'm glad your wiser, and have learnt from your mistake s ❤❤

okay so this might be a newbie question
but bro how can you make a post
i see no option :)