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softWords17
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Number of ratings7 Number of reviews2 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish, Hindi Listener sinceJun 23, 2016 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderFemale PathStep 28 People helped28 Chats91 Forum posts2 Forum upvotes7
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Around the World / by softWords17
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 May 15th
...See more First of all hello to all. I joined this app at a time in my life when I was very low and sad. I spoke to someone as a general request and it was really helpful. then I myself became a listener and heard many stories. sometimes you just want to be heard, no suggestions, no advice, we just need someone to listen. I guess this is the best app for that. Ok now, Today, I wanted to share something , it’s a Friday night. I had this Friday night dilemma at one point in my life, where every week working for 5 days, I needed to do something on Friday, go somewhere, enjoy, etc etc. but sometime when it didn’t happen, I would go in dilemma, why I don’t have anyone , why am I alone so many thoughts. In that process, I made some wrong decisions, going out with wrong people, wrong choices that affect you both physically and mentally. I don’t know why it was , but I always needed someone to be there with me on Friday. Speaking of that , I don’t have many friends, whoever I met was selfish , jealous or too busy to talk. It surprises me how people can forget all the good times that we had , and move on with their lives like nothing happened. How easily a person who talks to you everyday and suddenly stops. I don’t know , I had few people like that , initially I missed them, then I was angry, but now I don’t have anything for them just surprised to see how easy it was for them. In this process you forget to trust people and share anything with them. Hence 7cups. I hope If you have read till here, you didn’t find it boring. I have some things I need to do since it’s again a “Friday night”. But I have learned from my mistakes and honestly if you don’t learn , life keeps repeating those lessons. So I think I have more wisdom now. That’s all you are left with wisdom. ok so thanks for reading . Take care, have a great weekend. I hope I will write something again very soon. 🤗😇 and one more thing, if I can go back in time this is what I would have told myself - take it easy, this too shall pass. byee 🤗❤️❤️
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