@WorthlessBeing43 I can understand why it feels that way but it's not over. Life can be a new start at any age and the only one who gets to truly decide that is you.
I hope you find people, things, hobbies and moments that make you feel like you're on a new journey, one that's full of hopes and so many dreams that make you want to take inspired action everyday.
@WorthlessBeing43
Hey. I've read your previous post, too...
Imagine a few men still living with their moms: One of them left the studies and never had a job, diagnosed with multiple health issues, taking a fistful of pills a day. Another, capable of working, but drinking alcohol, chain-smoking and playing video games, and not taking part in daily chores. And the third one, educated, but alone, hard working and going to a gym regularly. The same but different...
What I wanted to say life is never "0" or "1", but mostly different shades of grey.
I know from my experience this is EXTREMELY difficult to think about it as temporary and take it as the "time for yourself" when you are out of job. But maybe it's an opportunity for self-care and some progress?
Graduating does not automatically make you a successful person. I know many examples of people with a degree (including me, one of the best students in a year, among 180) who are doing quite simple and "cheap" jobs.
As far as I understand finding a new job is now a priority for you?
Graduating takes lots of time and money, but have you considered any professional courses, that could make you more up-to-date with the changes on the job market?
Living in the house of your parents can be a limitation, but have you thought about some things that can make you feel more independent? Like redecorating your room in your personal style, doing some grocery shopping for yourself or washing your clothes yourself?
Having children requires meeting someone... What activities you took could make you feel closer to that moment in your life?
I complete my own chores like washing, cleaning, cooking, shopping etc. I have met someone. We have been married for a year and a half, but at our age and with me now out of work, having children is not possible.
@WorthlessBeing43
I was employed until last month. In this job market it is extremely difficult, especially when you don't have the formal education that many jobs require😞
My wife does work but is not well paid. Parents are late 60s and retired. Father has PTSD from military.
