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Relationship may be ruined from anxiety

quickwittedClementine30 January 21st, 2022

My partner and I have been together for almost a year now, and things are going great. The only issue is that I haven’t been completely honest about my financial situation and he has no clue.

im scared to tell him the truth due to my anxiety and have waited and lied to him for so long that I don’t think he would understand my forgiveness.


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blissart January 28th, 2022

@quickwittedClementine30


That can be an overwhelming thought and i hear ur dilemma. U had ur reasons to hide or lie but for long-term , any health relation needs honesty as things are sure to open up sooner or later. Am sure ur partner will be understanding n supportive . My best wishes !

ShivanshDengla January 28th, 2022

Don't worry it's going to be fine you know he loves you and you love him to just sit calmly and explain him everything from start to end and he'll understand tell her it's yoir mistake and you are really guilty and hope you forgive him. 😁❤️

Nyvastark January 28th, 2022

@quickwittedClementine30

From personal experience, I know that having anxiety turns even the smallest, unimportant things into a challenge and turns you into an overly anxious mess!

However being lied, especially by someone you love, over something important can be a tough pill to swallow. When you love somebody, naturally you only want to make then happy and avoid any topics that might upset them. It's natural, it's instinct even.

But, just because you meant well, and you were anxious about telling him the truth, does not negate the fact that you lied to him, which also means that he's going to have the right to be mad at you for a while. But admitting that what you were doing was wrong might go a long way towards forgiveness.

Personally, I always find that when I need to tell somebody something but am too anxious to do it in person, writing a letter always seems to be my go to! It's personal but also allows them to process the information without the risk of it immediately turning into a fight.

I wish you good luck!

Smily1225 January 31st, 2022

@quickwittedClementine30

I noticed that you posted this a few days ago. Has your situation changed at all or is this post still relavent?