Never being good enough
I got cheated on by the person I loved and trusted the most on the past. And it has been effecting my life a lot. I struggle with wanting to be the best version of myself. I always want to be good enough. Looking the best I can, working a lot and being a great girlfriend and roommate. Today I did a mistake by washing something wrong and my boyfriend told his sister, then he told me what I did wrong and I'm so extremely embarrassed. It gets me back to not being good enough.
@indigoOrange9898
Your boyfriend could've been a little nicer about it, no?
that's not on you if he couldn't be more gentle about it , no one's perfect or should be expected to do things perfectly always , it is ok to make mistakes
I get why it triggered the past memories 😕
Did you talk to him how his inconsiderate gesture made you feel?
yes, he said that it was dumb of me to feel bad about my mistake.
@indigoOrange9898
Uh not dumb, when he made you feel bad about it in the first place
@indigoOrange9898 I understand your situation, but caring too much about what other people think of you can get tiresome. I want you to live a full and fulfilling life and not be burdened by what other people think.
@indigoOrange9898
i know how you feel and its tough