I need help
im so scared rn, theres this person I'm talking to that is a bit older than me (by 3 years) and I'm so scareddd. i just don't want to be groomed again and have to go through all that stuff again
@jordyn1212
If you have been victimized or groomed before you most likely can see the signs ....or if this person makes you uncomfortable or scared end it....do not respond
if you no longer want to converse with this person quit .... block them or tell someone.....
Yeah if you're scared and uncomfortable talking to someone, just don't talk to them anymore
@jordyn1212 So here is the thing, so it might be also fear playing tricks on you. Usually when we deal with so much stuff from the past we are not able to see things clearly. Yet if you dont feel safe around the person there is no harm in not seeing that person anymore and being around someone who makes you feel at ease, just bear in mind that being older is not necesarily means more expirience, sometimes old people have almost 0 expirience and isolate most of their lifes :)
honestly, if this is how you are feeling already now, just stay away and create a safe space for yourself. It's just not healthy until you feel better about it, even if the person may be harmless, but I still really don't want to encourage anyone to get involved in potential dangerous situations. Don't do it
@axelslittlespace00 I completely understand how you feel right now. I am sorry it happened to you in the first place. If you feel it is going to happen again I suggest you to inform any trusted person nearby. Please try the relaxation excersises to calm yourself down. Hope U feel alright. Please take care.
@axelslittlespace00
Hey there, Ax!
That's a very understandable fear. It's always good to be cautious in these situations. I'm so sorry you got groomed before...it sounds awful! I'm here for you to talk if you ever need to. I'm glad you're reaching out to your community!
-Marsie
@axelslittlespace00
I'm understanding that you're talking to a person that is older than you and you're scared that they may try to groom you. If I were in your shoes, I could see myself being scared. Your feelings are valid. Have you spoken with a trusted adult about this?