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axelslittlespace00 December 5th, 2022

im so scared rn, theres this person I'm talking to that is a bit older than me (by 3 years) and I'm so scareddd. i just don't want to be groomed again and have to go through all that stuff again

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toughTiger6481 December 5th, 2022

@jordyn1212

If you have been victimized or groomed before you most likely can see the signs ....or if this person makes you uncomfortable or scared end it....do not respond

if you no longer want to converse with this person quit .... block them or tell someone.....



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axelslittlespace00 OP December 5th, 2022

@toughTiger6481 thanks :)

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FoxPrince December 5th, 2022

Yeah if you're scared and uncomfortable talking to someone, just don't talk to them anymore

okeyyyy December 7th, 2022

@jordyn1212 So here is the thing, so it might be also fear playing tricks on you. Usually when we deal with so much stuff from the past we are not able to see things clearly. Yet if you dont feel safe around the person there is no harm in not seeing that person anymore and being around someone who makes you feel at ease, just bear in mind that being older is not necesarily means more expirience, sometimes old people have almost 0 expirience and isolate most of their lifes :)

reliableWest8997 December 7th, 2022

honestly, if this is how you are feeling already now, just stay away and create a safe space for yourself. It's just not healthy until you feel better about it, even if the person may be harmless, but I still really don't want to encourage anyone to get involved in potential dangerous situations. Don't do it

NanditaB December 9th, 2022

@axelslittlespace00 I completely understand how you feel right now. I am sorry it happened to you in the first place. If you feel it is going to happen again I suggest you to inform any trusted person nearby. Please try the relaxation excersises to calm yourself down. Hope U feel alright. Please take care.

TrustfulOtter December 9th, 2022

@axelslittlespace00

Hey there, Ax!

That's a very understandable fear. It's always good to be cautious in these situations. I'm so sorry you got groomed before...it sounds awful! I'm here for you to talk if you ever need to. I'm glad you're reaching out to your community!

-Marsie

amiableSalamander17 December 9th, 2022

@axelslittlespace00

I'm understanding that you're talking to a person that is older than you and you're scared that they may try to groom you. If I were in your shoes, I could see myself being scared. Your feelings are valid. Have you spoken with a trusted adult about this?