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I need hope

limegreenCircle961 May 5th, 2019

Please give me hope that the anxiety can get better, that the negative scenarios I have in my mind are just full imagination and won't happen. I am exhausted, and I need hope to keep going. Please.

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lucy2 May 5th, 2019

Hi there @limegreenCircle961<3

So sorry you're feeling like this. Anxiety is very exhausting you're right there, but with the right help, you'll be able to manage the symptoms and feel more comfortable.

I have 2 great 7cups links that really are worthwhile reading as you'll find some solid advice there, so do try them.

https://www.7cups.com/anxiety-help/

https://www.7cups.com/exercises/mindfulness/?showlist=1

I really hope they help <3

Take care

Lucy2

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limegreenCircle961 OP May 5th, 2019

@lucy2

Thanks a lot I will have a look

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KatieKilo May 8th, 2019

I have generalized anxiety disorder. It has been a part of me for longer than I know, and it has shaped who I am. I wish I didnt have it, but it is mine all the same. While my anxiety is tiring, it doesnt compare to the exhaustion I used to feel trying to act as if it wasnt there. I can say that this was my first step in making my disorder easier to live with. I have done other things to make it easier, like finding a support group (yay 7 cups), reading and learning to better understand my anxiety disorder, reaching out to those around me I am comfortable around and explaining that I struggle, practicing meditation and mindfulness... While I have accepted that my anxiety disorder will probably never have a cure, no off switch, I can say that there are so many things you can do to not only help it easier to live with, but make it something you can accept as a part of you. I have generalized anxiety disorder, just like I have brown eyes or brown hair, it is what makes me, me. I have thoughts I dont like that come into my head, they are not me. I dont want them there, my brain puts them there all on its own. But a thought is just a thought, it is not the reality that it refers to. And no matter how ugly a thought is it cannot hurt me. It cannot come out of my brain and manifest itself into the real world. You are not alone. You dont have to feel alone when struggling. Dont give up hope, it can get better. @limegreenCircle961

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limegreenCircle961 OP May 8th, 2019

@KatieKilo

Thanks a lot for the kind words. it has been very challenging the last few weeks, and I think it is getting hard on my family too.

Mountainmystic777 May 8th, 2019

@KatieKilo the way you put it was so amazing and hearfelt, i dont have words. i especially loved when you said ," i have GAD just like i have brown eyes" i too felt it. i might also have a bit of GAD but im glad and really happy that you have learnt how to accept anxiety and overpower it everyday. hope you have a joyous day ahead

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KatieKilo May 8th, 2019

I have generalized anxiety disorder. It has been a part of me for longer than I know, and it has shaped who I am. I wish I didnt have it, but it is mine all the same. While my anxiety is tiring, it doesnt compare to the exhaustion I used to feel trying to act as if it wasnt there. I can say that this was my first step in making my disorder easier to live with. I have done other things to make it easier, like finding a support group (yay 7 cups), reading and learning to better understand my anxiety disorder, reaching out to those around me I am comfortable around and explaining that I struggle, practicing meditation and mindfulness... While I have accepted that my anxiety disorder will probably never have a cure, no off switch, I can say that there are so many things you can do to not only help it easier to live with, but make it something you can accept as a part of you. I have generalized anxiety disorder, just like I have brown eyes or brown hair, it is what makes me, me. I have thoughts I dont like that come into my head, they are not me. I dont want them there, my brain puts them there all on its own. But a thought is just a thought, it is not the reality that it refers to. And no matter how ugly a thought is it cannot hurt me. It cannot come out of my brain and manifest itself into the real world. You are not alone. You dont have to feel alone when struggling. Dont give up hope, it can get better. @limegreenCircle961

Mountainmystic777 May 8th, 2019

@limegreenCircle961 *virtual hugs* hey, i have full faith that everything will be okay. the scenarios that you have in your head have absolutely no power over you and your life. you're a powerful, amazing and wise individual who can do and achieve anything taht they want. have faith in yourself. hope you have a glorious day ahead