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When will I stop being afraid to do something??

User Profile: BlaiseAce
BlaiseAce January 27th

Maybe I'm sounding a little dramatic. Whatever.

I'm scared for my future.

I can't do anything because I'm scared of trying. I'm in a loop.

I start with the desire to do something, like super excited and can't wait to get started, then I start having doubts, I keep putting it off, and put it off until I get to the point where I stop trying.

And then I start again from the beginning. And I always repeat the same cycle.

It's frustrating and tiring.

I don't know what to do to fix this and seriously start doing the things I want to do.

Maybe I'm depressed ? Idk

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 January 28th

@BlaiseAce

Simply put it takes that step forward ...we can plan forever but unless we take the step nothing happens.

Could something you are planning to do go badly / could you fail ... YES ......but you will never know until you try.  failure is not to be feared because it is always a great time for growth and grow stronger to reach higher and try more things.... procrastinating IMO only wastes time . the items you will regret later in life is all the missed opportunities. 

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User Profile: BlaiseAce
BlaiseAce OP 23 hours ago

@toughTiger6481

"procrastinating IMO only wastes time"

Wow I didn't know that 🙄


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User Profile: courageouspanda2006
courageouspanda2006 20 hours ago

@BlaiseAce

I can relate. The negative thoughts talk you out of doing what you want to do. I'm struggling with the thoughts as well. I'm to a point I question all of my thoughts. Is it a negative thought? If so, how negative on a scale of 1 to 10. Try to find facts to prove it wrong and attempt to change it to a more positive thought. I know it's not easy, still learning to do this myself.