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sensitiveBalsam7250 November 30th, 2023

Have any of u guys ever been in a one sided relationship where u loved the other person soooo much and cared about them soo much that other people got jealous of how much love u had for that person and everything in that persons life mattered to u too, for months, and the other person does not even care or think about u? or if any of u ever been in either one of the persons POV, how did u go through it? this is my first time being in love so  have no idea what to do. someone plz help kindly

and i hope none of u ever have to lose someone u truly love cuz it hurtsss sooo baddd it's like this gut wrenching pain that no medicaton can fix! and yet the guy still does not care! 

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Tinywhisper11 November 30th, 2023

@sensitiveBalsam7250 huggs you tightly ❤
blindGrace277 November 30th, 2023

@sensitiveBalsam7250 I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through such a difficult and painful experience, sensitiveBalsam7250. Unrequited love can be incredibly challenging, and the emotional pain it brings is real.


It's important to acknowledge your feelings and give yourself the space to grieve the situation. It's okay to feel hurt, and it's okay to seek support from friends, family, or a mental health professional. Talking about your emotions can be a cathartic process.

In one-sided relationships, communication is key. While it may be difficult, consider expressing your feelings to the person involved. It's important to manage expectations, though, and understand that the other person may not share the same feelings.

Taking care of your mental and emotional well-being is crucial during tough times. Surround yourself with supportive friends and engage in activities that bring you joy and comfort.

If the pain becomes overwhelming, and you find it challenging to cope, don't hesitate to reach out to a mental health professional or a counselor who can provide guidance and support tailored to your specific situation.

Remember that healing takes time, and it's okay to seek help when needed. You're not alone, and there are people who care about you. If you have more specific questions or if there's anything else you'd like to discuss, feel free to share.
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sensitiveBalsam7250 OP November 30th, 2023

@blindGrace277 thank you so much. it's been really hard because i think and worry abut him a lot and he doesn't even think about me it hurts. i sometimes miss him a lot and i pray for him a lot and he has no clue and he does not care. his friends hate me for no reason which makes me feel like he hates or dislikes me too so i cannot even talk to him. i'm sorry to vent out like this but recently he got into an accident and i cannot even see him or do anything to help or even talk to him and it hurts. 


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ChromaticFinss December 3rd, 2023

I'm really sorry to hear this. Being in a one sided relationship is indeed painful. You might feel overwhelmed with the love we have for them but helpless about not knowing how to express it without feeling neglected. I'm sure, no one else can feel your state like the way you do. There are some thoughts that may help to reduce the pain. No matter how much we love someone, we cannot make them love us with that. People accept love from the people they choose and reciprocate if they wish. Love cannot be forced. If they think it's the love they need, they would take it. Let's respect their decision. If you still wish to love them unconditionally that's up to you. No harm to anyone! But keep in mind that if this love is destructing you in anyway or the other person does hurt you, don't think twice to leave. If you hold more that would hurt you more. Liberate your love. Let someone compatible find you, and cherish your love. 💛💛

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sensitiveBalsam7250 OP December 3rd, 2023

@ChromaticFinss thank you soo much i really love what u said here. thank u. 


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ChromaticFinss January 10th

@sensitiveBalsam7250 hugs💛

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randomdude34 December 3rd, 2023

@sensitiveBalsam7250 I’m so sorry.  I think it’s very important to know that you have to put yourself first. I’m sure it hurts to have your heart broken like that, but at the end of the day, loving yourself is what’s most important. I know that’s corny but I hope it helps. I wish you the best of luck. 💯

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sensitiveBalsam7250 OP December 3rd, 2023

@randomdude34 thank u

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