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randomdude34
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Number of ratings26 Number of reviews18 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceNov 17, 2023 Last activein last month GenderMale PathStep 19 People helped40 Chats46 Forum posts34 Forum upvotes84
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Ultimate chad of 7Cups. Love to go on long walks, hike, play basketball, and help others. Im working to become the best listener I can be. I’m always open to your feedback on how I can improve, be honest!

Chat with me and let’s roll. 🗿💪⚡️⚡️⚡️

Recent forum posts
THE WORST FEELING
Motivation & Accountability / by randomdude34
Last post
 January 3rd
...See more There is no worse feeling than when you know your doing something that’s not good for you, and not only do you not know how to stop, you don’t even know why you know it’s not good for you. And you can’t figure it out. It’s so hard to describe, it’s a gut level type of feeling.
STOP CHASING VALIDATION
Motivation & Accountability / by randomdude34
Last post
 January 4th
...See more In recent years, there is a certain group of people say you need to do what gets you rich, not your passion. They say that following your passion implies laziness, and that you can't do the things you don't want to that will get you rich. And/or you should delay following your passion until you have your finances in order. I strongly disagree with this. Yeah sure, some people who are following their passion might be avoiding other things they need to do if financial freedom is their dream, I get that. But for one, there's often ways to wrap your financial or business goals around your passion. Just because you have a dream in life that is perceived to be unrealistic because it's your passion, doesn't mean you can't get there, or that there's not realistic steps you can take to get there. And secondly, this type of mindset completely overlooks people who are absolutely OBSESSED with their passion. What if someone really wants to become a musician, it's all they think about, 24/7. It's their lifelong dream, they are driven, and they will do whatever it takes to get there. Is that person automatically a lazy loser because they didn't sign up for a 50 dollar course on e-commerce instead? No! Some people, depending on what career they are pursuing, and the level of opportunities in that path, simply might not have the time to do other things that will be more likely to get them rich. They are not lazy, they are not losers, and they are not "brokies". Besides, money isn't the only thing that matters. As long as you are actively looking for opportunities(especially in networking), taking a close look at all the options available to you, and are doing the absolute best you can, that 100% shows your work ethic. Being rich is not my primary focus. Becoming SUCCESSFUL is. I'd rather get 5 million dollars without a network, without signing up for an online business course, and being "lazy", then getting 100 million dollars by selling my soul and learning about the ancient wisdom of dropshipping. And I won't even delay my passion for after I get rich from those things. My dreams can't wait. Forget what the haters say. Do what you love, first and foremost, no matter what. It's as simple as that.💯
LET’S GO!
Motivation & Accountability / by randomdude34
Last post
 December 9th, 2023
...See more Just got my Helper ranking on here, I’m so happy. I used to use other listening sites to help people, but just recently all of the ones I use shut down. I was honestly devastated, doing stuff like this is something I live for. Sometimes I did remember I had this place as a backup option, but I was too afraid to take the first step. Now, I’m on my way to greatness. Never back down never what?! 💪🗣🗣🗿🗿
HONOR YOUR ANXIETY
Anxiety Support / by randomdude34
Last post
 December 5th, 2023
...See more If you are reading this with anxiety, you know it’s given you some of the toughest battles of your life. You know you also want to defeat it. But anxiety is a worthy opponent. Anxiety comes for everyone at some point.  Acknowledge it. Honor it. Close your eyes. Deep breath in, deep breath out. Now, go into the mirror. Look at yourself dead in the eye. Shout your last name 3 times as loud as you can. You know anxiety’s power. But you also know your own. Now is the time, to DEFEAT it. 🗿🗿🗿
DEFEAT YOUR PAIN
Motivation & Accountability / by randomdude34
Last post
 December 6th, 2023
...See more Pain comes for everyone. Acknowledge it. Listen to it. Honor it. Challenge it. And in the end, DEFEAT IT. 
YOU WILL WIN
Motivation & Accountability / by randomdude34
Last post
 December 7th, 2023
...See more “You have suffered enough. And warred with yourself. It’s time you won.” 🗿💪💯💯⚡️⚡️
MAKE PERFECTION CHASE YOU
Motivation & Accountability / by randomdude34
Last post
 December 7th, 2023
...See more Don’t chase perfection in your achievements or yourself, chase perfection in your effort. The more you do this, the more perfection will chase you. 🗿💪💯
REMEMBER YOUR ANCESTORS
Depression Support / by randomdude34
Last post
 November 19th, 2023
...See more When you’re in a deep struggle with depression, in your hardest moments, realize that that same struggle is what created you.  Do not give up. Because one day, if you ever have kids, them existing will be because of all the struggle you’ve gone through too. And you’ll get to see a living, breathing example of just how beautiful it really is.  Struggle creates life. And you deserve to be alive.
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Just a nice humble dude, appreciate him 💜
He is a great Listener and i could realy use his help and tips
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Offers a safe space to talk out problems and let’s you unravel your own mind safely.
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A good person to talk with.
Extremely kind and helpful. Listened to everything I had to say and gave me helpful resources.
He was so incredibly understanding and caring
very comforting i enjoyed talking
helpful! gives great guidance and overall great to talk with.
He was a good and nice listener.
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