Living in a toxic family
days have gone by my parents haven’t talked to me or even checked up on me & whenever I tried to talk to them they’ve ignored me. We all live in the same house & I’ve spent the last 2 whole day & night crying my eyes out & nobody even came up to me or checked up on me or even knows if I’m alive or not. Coming from a brown family, and being said that I’m a student, I’m pretty dependent on my parents so it’s hard when they do stuff like these. I’ve been having a really hard time avoiding the urge of having negative thoughts lately & it’s hard when your own family doesn’t even bother to care about u or check up on u & r too invested in their own stuffs. I don’t really know how to live on my own & I’m not very strong mentally either at this point so all I can do is cry my eyes out. That’s all I keep doing. My own family in my house don’t care about me don’t talk to me ignore me doesn’t know that I’ve been avoiding suicidal thoughts and doesn’t even know whether I’m still alive or not. Hurts kinda. I really don’t know what to do now.
@sensitiveBalsam7250 🙁 oh that's so heartbreaking😥 I'm so sorry sweetie 🙁 I wish I was there right now to give you a real hug ❤ people don't realise the hurt they cause sometimes, and it's always hard to be on the other side of that. Wipes your tears and gives you a giant tiny hug ❤❤ I'm right here for you, we all are ❤
Thank you so much ❤️
@sensitiveBalsam7250
I'm so sorry to hear that you're hurting. Feeling like your family doesn't care about you is so painful. Sometimes adults aren't aware they are being neglectful, or might even lack the skills to meet other people's needs. Can you think of any activity that brings you comfort? What do you usually do when you're having dark thoughts?
@sensitiveBalsam7250
I'm so sorry you're feeling this way. It sounds incredibly painful to feel ignored and unseen by your own family, especially when you’re struggling so much. No one deserves to feel this alone, and I want you to know that your feelings are completely valid.
It’s really strong of you to reach out and share what you’re going through. You matter, and your pain is real. I know it might not feel like it right now, but you are not alone in this. If you're struggling with negative thoughts, please consider talking to someone you trust—whether it’s a friend, a counselor, or even a helpline. You deserve support and care, and there are people out there who want to help.
If you want, I’m here to listen. You don’t have to go through this alone.
Thank you so much❤️
@sensitiveBalsam7250
I am always there for you and the whole 7 cups community