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I had been badly treated in a meet up even in a hostel.

User Profile: okeyyyy
okeyyyy November 2nd, 2024

so i went to a meet up event , for being sociable,   the event was held in a hostel, i thought the event was going to last longer, it was like 1 hour and 30 mins i was not aware of this.  in another day it lasted for hours,  so were were people from different places practicing English and Spanish   mid event high school kids showed up to the place , which was like a saloon with tables,   there were many teenagers, and kinda got noisy,   i believe the one who organized the event was not aware that there was another event on the same place so the two events got mixed up.   they kinda first asked us to move tables,   then there was this guy , who i was not aware that was the owner of the hostel,   he was kinda hurrying me and the other guys on the table to leave, which i felt that was quite unpolite ,   i told him dont bother me, i thought it was a nobody,   so he got really aggressive, like more insistent, and aggressive in how he was talking to me, like hei dude i did told you to leave,   the place thought cause oh i am the owner i can treat you like crap, he said dont yell, while yelling at me,   while trying to explain him that he was hurrying me to go away, like aggressively, he kinda kept you know being aggressive, also told me you dont come here anymore.  but the place was suppose to be a relaxing event,  some people can like have a smile pretend to be chill and be really mean   so other of the guys who were there witnessed that, and there was a french guy who was really good and spanish and kinda was not happy how unfair the owner was with me so i felt really badly treated, how an owner of a hostel, were people are suppose to be with good vibes is such a mean person,  i can see how well business is business,

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User Profile: Remina
Remina November 3rd, 2024

Sorry that happened.

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User Profile: okeyyyy
okeyyyy OP January 6th

@Remina thanks for your support, means a lot to me

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User Profile: Remina
Remina January 6th

@okeyyyy

You're welcome!

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User Profile: KasperTheGhosttt
KasperTheGhosttt January 6th

@okeyyyy

Sounds like a really bad feeling to experience that! 

Business definitely changes people into robots sometime, people often sacrifise empathy for money.

Altho it kind of sounds like the owner was under alot of pressure. People sometimes get frustrated very quickly when under pressure and show less empathy and care for others eventho maybe inside they are alot more kind. Maybe he also has to deal with alot of jerks everyday or rude high schoolers. Maybe just a rough day. Or maybe he mistook your confusion with being rude.

Could be many many things that likely have nothing to do with you, just with him.

Eighter way, hope your next event is at a more relaxed location! Sounds like a nice event idea.