Hi guys I'm new arround here

@ashleyneedssomeonetotalkto

Hey Welcome to 7 cups of tea! I hope you have a lovely experience here! 

Im 33 going on 34 this year. I feel like a total loser and I have not achieved anything in life. I 

I find myself struggling with even writing down my new year resolution for 2025, which has already gone by for 11 days.

I don't want to make effort to do anything really and my husband said he can't live with someone like me and he is demanding me to change. 

On the one hand, I know that I must make changes to stop my laziness, but on the other hand, I'm feeling resentful that he demands me to change. 

Does anyone feel not motivated to do things as well? 

Does anyone also want to succeed in something but don't know where to start ? 

I feel so alone in this and would appreciate if I can talk to someone about it.