Anxiety over boyfriend I apparently shouldn't be with
I was in a abusive relationship but he was also protective over me which I guess that's why I feel what I feel. Made a choice to get back together with him even though I had a bad feeling and now he's been in jail for 2 months which I know he's lied of reasons why bc it also goes back to the past and idk I'm freaking out. I seriously don't know wth to do. My worried feelings welcomed them selves when I read old messages from him.
@lmff55
I am sorry you are going through this ... are you leaving now that he is in jail? Those little nagging feelings we get should be listened to IMO has saved me many times to not do something when some fear type feeling popped up,
If there are items he did not tell you or lied about involving criminal behavior you need the real full story.
I know in some places you can look up the real charges on a person in jail and get information without his spin on it ... I am not saying it is about his alleged crime but lying to you about it what happens if next time he somehow involves you in it.
@lmff55 I'm really sorry to hear about what you're going through. It's incredibly tough to navigate feelings in an abusive relationship, especially when there are protective aspects that can be confusing. It's understandable that you're feeling overwhelmed and worried, especially with the added stress of his incarceration and the mixed signals from his past messages. It’s okay to feel conflicted and it's important to prioritise your own safety and well-being. Have you considered reaching out to a trusted friend or a professional for support? You don't have to go through this alone ❤️
