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The value of forum upvotes

Roadie June 11th, 2015

[Note: Originally posted in Listeners Only forums, but moved to general forum because this is relevant for all!]

There is something that I've notice about the forums while just observing and not actively participating.

If you're interested in supporting people, truly interested in supporting people, I ask you to try this one thing after reading this post. Go to one support forum thread and read someone's story. You don't need to reply but just read.

I think we can all recall times in our lives when we have been hurt, have been spurned, or have felt alone. Have been lost in our negative thoughts, seeking affirmation from others whether it be positive or whether it be negative.

Do you remember those times?

When I read the support forums, I see hundreds of posts made every day by members. And I see hundreds of threads created by those same members.

What are they after when they post?

Are they after a panacea, a magic bullet to cure all of their ills?

Can you think of a time when you've been there?

When you feel as though you're alone, hiding in the dark. Terrified from the
lack of light, all you are after is one spark to inspire. One spark to remind you that you are important. One spark to acknowledge that you're still worthy of someone's time and attention.

So when I see post after post after post unacknowledged, it makes me wonder. If I was them and I had shown the courage to spill my soul out onto the page for others and nobody had acknowledged that it had even been seen. How would I feel?

As a listener community, we give appreciation readily and openly to one another. Community shout outs to listeners are posted every day. Anonymous appreciation messages are sent daily, again to fellow listeners. Acknowledgement after acknowledgement of one another which is so kind and open however why can this not be shared with our members?

Let me just say this.

A man beaten down by society sits on the side of the road, soul destroyed. Watching person after person look away quickly to avoid his gaze. It makes you feel like less of a human being. A smile, an acknowledgement is worth more to that man than all of the gold that has been mined from this earth.

In the support forums, that acknowledgement is easy. It's called an upvote. A simple click of an upvote to show that someone has taken the time and care to read what they have posted.

Please, spend 30 seconds and make a difference to a member's life today because a forum upvote can be all that it takes.

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Roadie OP November 29th, 2018

Bump

Roadie OP April 22nd, 2019

Bumping up this thread for a new generation of listeners

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Anomalia April 30th, 2019

@Roadie - It's still in our forum supporter training, too Slightly smiling

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Roadie OP January 16th, 2020

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sameer2016 February 23rd, 2020

@Roadie

https://www.7cups.com/home/welcome/?rid=19664226

mysticalSerendipity February 23rd, 2020

@Roadie

Indeed..

Sunisshiningandsoareyou January 10th, 2022

Bump❤

rayone21MM August 6th, 2022

Love this


EmbStitcher33 August 14th, 2022

@Roadie

To be heard, to be acknowledged is very important. An upvote is such an easy thing to do. Your words really resonate with me.

TheConversation22 August 14th, 2022

That's great !

Happy900 August 21st, 2022

@Roadie Thanks for writing this and for sharing this.

Yes an up-vote, means a lot to some people on here.

So try your best to give them one.