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The value of forum upvotes

Roadie June 11th, 2015

[Note: Originally posted in Listeners Only forums, but moved to general forum because this is relevant for all!]

There is something that I've notice about the forums while just observing and not actively participating.

If you're interested in supporting people, truly interested in supporting people, I ask you to try this one thing after reading this post. Go to one support forum thread and read someone's story. You don't need to reply but just read.

I think we can all recall times in our lives when we have been hurt, have been spurned, or have felt alone. Have been lost in our negative thoughts, seeking affirmation from others whether it be positive or whether it be negative.

Do you remember those times?

When I read the support forums, I see hundreds of posts made every day by members. And I see hundreds of threads created by those same members.

What are they after when they post?

Are they after a panacea, a magic bullet to cure all of their ills?

Can you think of a time when you've been there?

When you feel as though you're alone, hiding in the dark. Terrified from the
lack of light, all you are after is one spark to inspire. One spark to remind you that you are important. One spark to acknowledge that you're still worthy of someone's time and attention.

So when I see post after post after post unacknowledged, it makes me wonder. If I was them and I had shown the courage to spill my soul out onto the page for others and nobody had acknowledged that it had even been seen. How would I feel?

As a listener community, we give appreciation readily and openly to one another. Community shout outs to listeners are posted every day. Anonymous appreciation messages are sent daily, again to fellow listeners. Acknowledgement after acknowledgement of one another which is so kind and open however why can this not be shared with our members?

Let me just say this.

A man beaten down by society sits on the side of the road, soul destroyed. Watching person after person look away quickly to avoid his gaze. It makes you feel like less of a human being. A smile, an acknowledgement is worth more to that man than all of the gold that has been mined from this earth.

In the support forums, that acknowledgement is easy. It's called an upvote. A simple click of an upvote to show that someone has taken the time and care to read what they have posted.

Please, spend 30 seconds and make a difference to a member's life today because a forum upvote can be all that it takes.

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warmSoul46 September 20th, 2016

@Roadie Wow this is amazing. You got the idea across through a creative and interesting way. Thank you very much, wohoo.

smilinghooman September 25th, 2016

thank you for this

SmileAtTheWorld October 7th, 2016

Awe, this gave me goosebumps. So sweet and yet, so true ♥ Upvote from me.

DeliberateCreator October 9th, 2016

Funny:)

mgvela November 28th, 2016

You're totally right, some could feel like they are invisible

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SpruceRaven February 23rd, 2018

@mgvela that's how i feel in the outer world.

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CloudsCanShine December 10th, 2016

might have have my forum? maybe lol:)

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CloudsCanShine December 10th, 2016

@CloudsCanShine*my*

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Anomalia January 14th, 2017

Bump bump bumpity bump!

crimsonMelon8700 February 7th, 2017

Getting forum up votes makes me feel as though I am not alone.

Roadie OP May 6th, 2017

Bump

Roadie OP May 23rd, 2017

Bumping up again