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amiablePeace77 February 9th

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP February 9th

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User Profile: purpleTree4652
purpleTree4652 February 9th

@amiablePeace77

I need for Walmart to straighten out my pills I was supposed to pick up at noon then supposed to pick up at 5pm and am now am supposed to pick them up at 10 pm.  I usually take my sleeping pills at 8 pm.  I usually take my shower at 9pm.  So tonight is going to be all different.  I just hope my pills will be ready when I'm there at 10pm.  Ugh!

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User Profile: politeSpruce6185
politeSpruce6185 February 9th

@purpleTree4652

it will be ready you’ll see… if not go direct in there department and wait, normally the pharmacist will accommodate from my past experience . 

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politeSpruce6185 February 9th

@amiablePeace77

my wife is very ill married 42 years, right now I need affection and hug, she can’t give me love she has dementia she probably doesn’t recognize me I’m crying everyday so I miss her .  

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amiablePeace77 OP February 10th

@politeSpruce6185

Dementia can cause so much pain. I can only imagine how heartbreaking it feels realizing that she does not recognize you as her husband. Sending you hugs and comforting beams 💙 Know we are here for you to chat and for comfort. 


User Profile: humble101
humble101 February 13th

That's tuff wow. I'm here to listen if you want.

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User Profile: WharfRat
WharfRat February 10th

How do you feel? What do you need right now?

I feel frustrated with my progress and with the medical care, or lack of it, that I am getting these

days.  I need my therapist to talk about my abuse and not all of these other things.  I would like to talk with some others about what was done to me and how it made me feel.


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amiablePeace77 OP February 11th

@WharfRat

Many people are suffering from not getting their needs met by the health care system these days. So sorry it affects you too. I hope things will change soon, you've been suffering for a long time already!

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User Profile: brialovesvolleyball
brialovesvolleyball February 10th

@amiablePeace77 I feel horrible, I need my man back. he just left me. 

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amiablePeace77 OP February 11th

@brialovesvolleyball

I can only imagine how much your heart is hurting right now that he left. Hugs (if okay) 💙 Did you have a fight, or did he leave for work or another reason if I may ask?

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User Profile: Anjalisss
Anjalisss February 10th

I feel lost

I want that person who used to be mine

I'm feeling alone

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP February 11th

@Anjalisss

When someone who used to be with us all the time is not there anymore it hurts a lot. Sorry that you're feeling lost and alone. 💙  It might help to talk to someone like a listener here or a trusted person offline. 

Loneliness support room is open on Mondays and Tuesdays. You can find it here 

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User Profile: AliciaRojas
AliciaRojas February 10th

@amiablePeace77 Not feeling all that great, i need some motivation to get better

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP February 11th

@AliciaRojas

So sorry to hear that you're not feeling well! Something that helps me to get motivated is to listen to positive affirmation/gratitude affirmations in the morning after waking up. What helped you in the past to get motivated again after a rough time?

User Profile: humble101
humble101 February 13th

What's wrong

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User Profile: akunknown
akunknown February 10th

@amiablePeace77

How do you feel? 

Currently feeling 50/50. While I’m happy, I’m also unhappy and you can thank that for all the privacy invasions I’ve been getting from certain family members who’ve gotten into my place despite it being locked shut. They’re good at finding ways to get through that unfortunately for me. 

What do you need right now?

Understanding and acceptance that I should be getting enough respect that my privacy is not invaded and that I’m treated a lot better than I’ve ever been. So far all my life I’ve been unfairly mistreated and still am. And it’s a lot more than just an invasion of privacy. 

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amiablePeace77 OP February 11th

@akunknown

It is only understandable that you want to be treated fairly and have your privacy respected! Do you feel that mutual trust has to be rebuild?

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User Profile: akunknown
akunknown February 11th

@amiablePeace77

Trust can’t be rebuilt if it was never there. Which in this specific case it wasn’t. 

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amiablePeace77 OP February 13th

@akunknown

I am very sorry to hear and can only imagine how difficult this situation is for you.

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User Profile: akunknown
akunknown February 13th

@amiablePeace77

Thank you. I appreciate that a lot. ❤️❤️

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User Profile: convivialCucumber1872
convivialCucumber1872 February 11th

@amiablePeace77

i feel upset and discouraged. I feel ugly

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amiablePeace77 OP February 13th

@convivialCucumber1872

Sending you hugs (if accepted). Sorry that you're hurting so much 💙.  It can help to join a support group or to talk to a listener to share more about your feelings. We are here for you!

User Profile: humble101
humble101 February 13th

Your not ugly

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User Profile: slowdecline48
slowdecline48 February 11th

A better body than the one I have...

...but then, I've been saying that for years.

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amiablePeace77 OP February 13th

@slowdecline48

I hear you, when there are aches and pains all over body it would be nice to choose a new one. 

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