What to do

You keep fighting. It happend to me too and it took me a while to understand that my wife can’t possibly understand what i’m going through, but i should continue to support her, love here even if i have to keep struggling to become a better man.

You raise an interesting question. What are you expecting or needing from your wife that bithers you to ask the question? How are you broken? Is it something she can't relate? How long have you broken for?

I'm sorry i was inarticulate. How long have you felt this way?

Hello,

I’m sorry that you feel this way, honestly us women sometimes are in our own little world maybe struggling with our own broken things that we maybe don’t have the time to see what our man is going through. Honestly I’m having the same problem with my own husband I’m also broken to sad and it seems like he doesn’t realize it. I don’t know it could be that maybe man when they are sad or hurting they always intend to find some ways to avoid it like maybe having fun, going out with friends, or beIng in their cell phones etc who knows they are always so quiet they never open up to their wife’s of what is going on with them. In the other had us women we are different we do try to communicate our emotions to our husbands we are more open than man are. But sometimes we are just not being heard either. I just think it depends on the relationship and how well you get along with one another, have you tried to communicate to your wife what you are feeling? If you have and she just doesn’t listen maybe she just doesn’t care or who knows if you guys have children or she just have other responsibilities she might just be overwhelm and just is not the right moment to listen to you. Maybe try to talk to her when both of you are relax and alone if you guys have kids. If you don’t then it will be much easier to talk to her if she is just not busy. See if she is able to listen to you on how you are feeling. Go out in a date that sometimes helps to communicate better and just be away from all the obligations you guys have. I wish you nothing but the best and I hope that things with your wife do end up well if you want come back and let us know take care.