Friend Betrayal
I had my best friend of 8 years attack me with a vindictive voice memo when I mentioned concerned about her new boyfriend (which she asked me to do before she began dating anyone.) She detailed all the mistakes I had made in my relationships that I had shared in confidence, comparing herself to me as being wiser. Then she blocked me.
I just discovered the married the guy she had been dating only months later.
I'm sad that she changed so drastically. It was like I didn't know the true her at all. And I'm sorry she's not moved into a situation so like her first marriage.
I know I can't do anything being a stranger now but it is disappointing and discouraging. Hoping someone can understand or has been in a similar situation.
@neatBlueberry5213 awww I'm sorry sweetie. People can fall in love and become very defensive. Although whatcha said to you was not nice at allš and yep we will never be able to understand or really know anyone. AS sad as that sounds. I hope you can move forward, and concentrat e on making new friends, good luck ā¤ gives you a giant festive tiny hug ā¤
@neatBlueberry5213
I'm sorry you lost a friend this way. Particularly if you were doing something you thought they had asked you to do. Loss of someone from your life is naturally distressing. And I can totally relate to how much worse it is when it comes about from trying to do the right thing.
Your intentions were good. Your friend unfortunately saw otherwise. And there's not much you can do about that.
Have a hug. There's not much I can say to take away your hurt. But if it helps, I'm thinking of you.
