lonlieness

@determinedZebra820 🙁 I'm so sorry sweetie, nobody should ever have to feel or go through loneliness😥 I thank God for 7cups, it may not be the same as having a person you can see and visit, but it's a life line for many of us ❤gives you a giant tiny hug ❤ I hope this site comforts you, even if only a little bit ❤

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Unless you have ongoing health issues, maybe you could stop isolating?

I picked a few things I enjoy doing, then met like-minded neighbors through Meetups, civic groups, & informal social clubs in my area.

@determinedZebra820 you arent isolated god is always there, werent made for nothing 🥰

@determinedZebra820

I'm always a chat away, you can message me when you need to talk.

@determinedZebra820 I used to hate being alone as a kid. Now as an adult I actually enjoy it a lot. I really enjoy being alone as an adult. At work we around people, grocery shopping there's people, in the waiting room there's people.  People are on the trains and buses.  A lot of my hobbies are solitude like knitting, my window garden.  If I don't want to be alone, I go to the library.  Enjoy solitude! 

@determinedZebra820 Do you have any hobbies at all? Hobbies, for some have been helpful. Do you have any Dvd's to watch at all? That might be helpful. Do you have friends, that you can either call or e-mail, at all? Do you enjoy learning new things? If so, there are a lot of free courses out there. All you have to do is type in, what you want to learn  more about. 

I hear you

I found myself in a similar boat many times

Sometimes there are times where we really do need people in our life, or just us bring us and seen and heard

Unfortunately there are many people who don't understand that reality, they think that everyone can just enjoy time alone and that they should

In fact we all do enjoy time alone if we get plenty of loving connection first and the more of it we get the more autonomy we get to enjoy later.

Send like we may need to be smart about making life filled with deep human connection, and really sometimes we don't need much from people, just being noticed in who we really are and feel like in the moment.

Wishing you that human connection you crave and deserve, in the meantime maybe try to give yourself the touch you need and hug trees and animals if you can.

Hope that it is helpful somehow dear fellow human

Yea I go out occasionally but not much and feel tired all the time overweight turning 37 next week kinda scary wasting life away 

Why been alone 

@determinedZebra820. I understand how you feel it can be frustrating