Husbands double life…
Hey people!
About 6 months ago I found out that my husband Had been using excessive amounts of Kratom behind my back as well as racking up extreme amounts of debt over feeding his supply.
spending about $200/ week on average.
The main reasons this upset me
1.) I am currently a stay at home mom.
2.) I wasn’t granted access to my husband banking acct. originally … so I couldn’t have prevented this.
now I have access.
3.) he is on drug probation (from before dating me)
4.) when we started dating he told me he was a sober and changed man
We went to a few marriage counseling sessions when this problem first came into play.
The counseling didn’t really help
The advice was pretty much for my husband to stop lying to me and stop using the credit cards.
I assumed that since he agreed to this
We wouldn’t really need counseling.
Long story short
He confessed when confronted about using again 3 times total since then
Who knows how many times it really was …
the debt is still there.
He has paid down some and racked up in other places.
I apologize how unprofessional this post is..
I’m super high anxiety and can barley wrap this story up quickly
Should I leave him?
@willingRaspberries9667
No one can tell you what you should do only you can make a choice I
f the shoe was on the other foot would he see you through an addiction? if you had an addiction would you freely confess and never try to hide your shame?
That is what this is ... regardless that it is sold over the counter ..... it is hard on families and money issues intensifies this.
addicts lie a lot / addicts spend money with out regard to others and hurt loved ones and addicts can also get clean........ if he got clean and sober is there a relationship there still ?
