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willingRaspberries9667
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35 & Over Community / by willingRaspberries9667
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August 18th, 2023
...See more can anyone see this thread the long rant I posted didn’t seem to work out.
Husbands double life…
35 & Over Community / by willingRaspberries9667
Last post
August 18th, 2023
...See more Hey people! About 6 months ago I found out that my husband Had been using excessive amounts of Kratom behind my back as well as racking up extreme amounts of debt over feeding his supply. spending about $200/ week on average. The main reasons this upset me 1.) I am currently a stay at home mom. 2.) I wasn’t granted access to my husband banking acct. originally … so I couldn’t have prevented this. now I have access. 3.) he is on drug probation (from before dating me) 4.) when we started dating he told me he was a sober and changed man We went to a few marriage counseling sessions when this problem first came into play. The counseling didn’t really help The advice was pretty much for my husband to stop lying to me and stop using the credit cards. I assumed that since he agreed to this We wouldn’t really need counseling. Long story short He confessed when confronted about using again 3 times total since then Who knows how many times it really was … the debt is still there. He has paid down some and racked up in other places. I apologize how unprofessional this post is.. I’m super high anxiety and can barley wrap this story up quickly Should I leave him?