Heart so broken
I was so in love with this amazing guy I met during a holiday, and I thought what we had was so special. We fell in love. We were in a long-distance relationship, and four months later, he came to visit me. We spent the most amazing three weeks together, and during that time, he told me he loved me for the first time. He also initiated the idea of relocating to my country.
Last month, I visited his hometown, and he introduced me to his parents and grandparents. His family was so happy to meet me because it was the first time he had introduced a girlfriend to them.
Everything went so well during my visit until I checked his phone and discovered that he had been flirting with other women after we met. He had sent a selfie to one girl, saying, “It’s a blessing to meet you, and I hope to meet you again. I’ll be waiting for you.” When I confronted him about it, he said he was just being stupid and wanted to show off to his colleagues that other women liked him.
I also found another message to a different girl that said, “It was nice meeting you. I hope to see you again soon, and I hope I didn’t misbehave last night.” After the confrontation, he started having thoughts about ending things with me, and I later found out he told his best friend that he was “kind of done” with me.
I was heartbroken and not in the best state of mind, so I initiated the breakup. He still kept in touch with me and was being very sweet, so I initiated to reconcile. But two weeks later, he was already with a new girl.
I can’t make sense of what happened. Can someone tell me what’s going on and why?
@happyfish1314
Sorry to hear that. It was a sweet-bitter short love story. You did the right thing. That's for your best. A guy like him is not worth it for your time and loyal heart. There's no wrong about you, remember that. It's just that, the guy you loved is a womanizer, and there is no medicine for that 😅 let's just laugh and celebrate for your freedom and peace. Hope you can be healed soon.
Hugs 🤗🤗
Thank you so much for you kind words. Hugsss
I thought I was feeling much better, but today the emotions hit hard again. Good to have received your kind words
@happyfish1314 you move on in God's perfect time and then you will just laugh at it 😂
@happyfish1314 I can totally empathize with you and I am so sorry for you. My crush too was first so good to me, himself gave me his number, we had some really great texting sessions but then he blocked me for no real reason and said all sorts of hurtful things like " You cannot force someone to interact who is unwilling" , " I don't like your messages" etc. And since May 2024, he has blocked me everywhere. Sucks.
What's going on? You've unfortunately met a terrible man and it's not your fault. Some people can fake it and make it seem like they are the most wonderful person and that they love you, some people are very very good at it and I'm sorry it was your turn.
He is a lovebombing sleezy AH and you are destined for so much better xxx
I’m glad you got out. The writings on the wall. My experience it’s nothing more than his ego.
that’s a hard situation. i am in something similar. i really hit it off with someone and now it feels like she’s changed. it felt like we were great friends and now i feel nothing from her. i don’t know why and it makes me feel crazy. today has been very hard and stressful. this was the first real friend i had since my big beakup last year.
now i feel so lonely and rejected
those messages you found do seem bad im sorry you had to go threw that. people dont understand how much heartbreak and betrayal can hurt.
That guyvis a crap human being and thank God you got out of that situation sooner rather than later. Most men are so fickle and destructive
@happyfish1314
Hello, thank you for sharing your troubles. It was real brave of you.
First off, I just want to say: Wow. What a jerk. I mean seriously, you deserve someone better.
I know it must be difficult to grieve through this but I have been through hard breakups and I always cried for someone who could not appreciate me or treat me well- but for a long time now, I have worked on how I allow people to treat me.
What they did was to you was disrespectful. There are men out there with pure souls, you will definitely find someone better for you.
@happyfish1314 I am sorry to hear that but he's kind of not putting all the pebbles on one hole so it's up to you whether you want to go on while knowing this. Unless he's clear to make you priority. But he's not?