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Fading away slowly

zeetee17 November 17th, 2023

Sometimes, I feel so alone even if I'm in the same room as my husband or other family.  I wish I can just meet a someone who I can talk and relate to about how difficult it is to continue life with a broken heart. Maybe I would feel less alone. I feel like I'm slowly fading away

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Greentrees2325 November 26th, 2023

So sorry to hear you’re going through this. I can totally relate… hope you’re able to find someone to talk to ❤️

Yougotmyback November 26th, 2023

Hi, someone has already given a few suggestions. Here's mine which is slightly different. I can totally relate to the feeling of being alone even with people. And how difficult it is to find some who understands the situation we are in. In such a state, what I try to do is to find someone with similar interests as me. That way I can have at least one person who shares one part of life with me, even if it's a small one. That way there's no need to have an emotional dependency because that often make us feel even more empty if that person leaves. So, this is more like connecting with people on a level where you're finding something together that heals you.

Probably you can look into some hobbies that you used to have and build a community by yourself or join one. It would help you find people who can truly relate to you. 🤍

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zeetee17 OP December 8th, 2023

these are all great suggestions. thank you

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Yougotmyback December 8th, 2023

🤗❤️🫶🏻

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communicativePond1728 November 26th, 2023

@zeetee17

As someone who was never compatible with my family this post really rung a bell deep in my darkest chambers.

We've gotten to the point where I don't speak with any of them.

I wonder where the love has gone.

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zeetee17 OP December 8th, 2023

I feel as we get older we get lost in self reflection, regret, hindsight etc. we realize how much we've changed and that things are not the same. its hard to feel like this

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ivorystar20 December 11th, 2023

So so so true!!!!!!!

Greentrees2325 February 26th

I totally agree @zeetee17


people change as they grow… I don’t think anyone should should hold the same expectations on someone to be the same say 10, 20 or 30 years down the line…



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egret35 November 26th, 2023

What would you like to talk about?

K8love December 9th, 2023

Hi I just want to say I have exactly the same feeling. I never was close to my husband .but now I am gone very quiet .hardly bring anything up with him or my children I have changed so much .but they dont know I understand it very unusual feeling .

ivorystar20 December 11th, 2023

I can relate to this too!!! With age I think we change a lot… and the spouse too.. we need to come up with coping strategies

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zeetee17 OP January 11th

It would be good to get insight in each other's coping strategies

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vyasdesai December 14th, 2023

I too face similar to what you feel

ylesly December 17th, 2023

How are you today?


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zeetee17 OP January 11th

I have my good days and my bad days.

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Greentrees2325 February 26th

You’re not alone @zeetee17 …


if only 7cups made it easier for members to chat

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inquisitivecloud February 26th

Hi - noticed this was posted 3 months ago; checking in. How are you?

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zeetee17 OP March 22nd

I've still got ups and downs. i know I'm suffering from ptsd from betrayal trauma and no matter how much couples counselling we do or how much he tries to show me he's changed i feel now like a totally different person. There's too much resentment built in me to even try

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Countrygirl095 February 26th

I’m rooting for you. Your story is an over it.

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zeetee17 OP March 22nd

thank you ❤️

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