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mzcookie November 13th, 2021

I'm trying to control myself at this point cause me and my girlfriend have been fighting for 3dsys now and me going off the edged don't know what to do been thinking About things I should not be thinking about so I decided to get on here and try and figure myself out

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halcyonCloud2036 November 16th, 2021

@mzcookie

You are in the right place! We are here to support you!

BellaTora November 16th, 2021

Hey cookie, sometimes I think even that happens I try to take a cooling off period. Just a day or two no communication. Tell them kindly let's take some space, not from the relationship but to heal and then when you're both ready come back and talk, try be somewhere pretty or calm like a park. Just be with each other no talking just hold hands drink so tea then try to hear each other out one at a time. No talking during the partners talking and same for them when your turn. In the time of space before you meet, take long walks, read, watch a movie come back to yourself

TerryLuvsWinter November 21st, 2021

Hi! I’m sorry to hear this. Don’t let someone else’s negativity become your reason for self destruction. We are all worth more than that. Everyone deserves happiness and if the person we are with is not the reason we smile every day then it’s time to let that person go and maybe just find your nee happiness.