forever hating myself for trusting so easily π
why is that everytime i feel like they care then i suddenly tell them everything but thenΒ ...they stop giving respond and then i end up overthink everything ππ
@hopefulencounter I had a friend on this site, who I would check in on most days, but that wasn't enough for her in her mind I should be there for her more, it ended up in her saying some nasty things to me. She was also very insecure with low self esteem, bless her. I'm telling you this because if you latch on to someone and become to needy, people won't stay aroundπ life gets in the way, people have their own issues to. Please try to understand what I'm saying, gives you a giant tiny hug β€ I hope you make lots of friends here β€
@Tinywhisper11 I see, that's ..unfortunate. It's not about friend on this site. i know my friend from x ..but because a lot of complicated things happened in that community, it's becoming so hard for me to trust people. I already deactivated my x account then we moved to *** π. I hope my negative thoughts aren't true.. I hope she's truly kind to me.
DUDEEEE STOP PLEASE
same issue happened to me XXX times until I went for advice n been told we cannot give too much if we r this caring n too trusting n open :(
its sad reality but no
the more u do the worse it gets
i had to stop myself from cutting such people off
i couldnt
they would use us in every possible way for time to attention or our energy or efc
doesnt metter
its not alright
not fair to us