About to be 27 - single virgin with no life experiences

I am about to be 27 this june. I am the youngest in my asian family where parents keep a strict eye on the kids. I am reaching 27 but still dont have the freedom to do things. Its frustrating. My parents want me to just get married but how could I do that when I have never learned to be free? I just want to move abroad and start a life of freedom. Do what Ive always wanted. This year i want to have all my firsts. Learn to ride a bicycle, learn to swim, grow a plant, have a real relationship, kiss and makeout, travel to another country, get a drivers license. I feel pathetic and depressed. I tried to find some companionship in an online relationship but he left me because he couldnt wait for me to come to his country to be with him. Its understandable but it still hurts. I am so alone and sad now...I just want to live a normal life. But I keep getting held back and perhaps my biggest enemy is myself.