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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

HealingWing777
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I'm taim from Syria !  I have over 2 years of experience volunteering in multiple mental health communities, I suffered a lot from mental health and I'm eager to help everyone so they don't feel the same You can talk to me about nearly everything and I will offer a safe space for you to vent :D Together hopefully we can make this world less lonely for everyone :)
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Jenna
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I'm currently on a break and not available for any PM's. Hello and welcome! I'm glad you’ve reached out. Life can feel overwhelming at times, and having someone to listen without judgment can make a difference. Whether you're feeling lost, anxious, or simply need a space to share your thoughts, I’m here to support you. I aim to create a safe, empathetic environment where you can feel heard and understood. We all battle things, and thankfully we don't have to do it alone even if it's just someone on the other side of the screen offering support. ------------------------- Topics I support Anxiety, Bipolar Disorder, Depression, Grief, LGBTQ+ PTSD/Trauma(Sexual Abuse/Assault), Terminal Illness ------------------------- What to expect I focus on being a compassionate listener, asking thoughtful questions, and helping you process your emotions. My goal is to help you feel lighter by the end of our conversation. I believe in the power of kindness, honesty, and mutual respect in every chat. My chats are 1 hour long and I support repeating members once a week. Feel free to reach out when you're ready to talk. Let's walk this journey together, one step at a time. ------------------------- Online - This indicates I am available to support you. Busy - This indicates that I am online, but I am already in a chat or not able to reply right away. Offline - This indicates that I am not online or taking chats at the moment. ------------------------- Twin Brian AnnaSilverberg Lefthanded Pal Bluerivercares Listener Quintuplets blithesun94, coolvibes, Kristynsmama, Teagan, vivelespatates
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JonahhMinusTheWhale
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Online: Most Tuesdays* & Sundays Hi, my name is Jonah and I'm a recovering addict. The premise of this account is to connect with and foster some sort of community where we can not only share our stories, talk openly about our struggles, and hold each other accountable on this journey but to also offer each other some grace and understanding alongside that. With all that in mind, while I am open to more casual chat, I prefer to take chat requests related to topics I have direct lived experience with. If you're looking to maybe connect with a kind, non-judgmental listener that shares similar experiences with addiction/recovery (alcohol/drug abuse) and doesn't act like 'their sh*t don't stink' either. Feel free to reach out to me even if my status icon is red and I'll get back to you when I can. If by chance I'm unable to, don't take offense, there are loads of seasoned and keen listeners on here who can. I care about you, I respect your needs, and I want to listen to your story even if I can't always empathize. All I ask in return is that you approach the space with a fair amount of respect, for both me and my time, and I'll extend the same courtesy back to you.  ð¤²Much love, Jonah.
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Carly23
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Hey there! My name is Carly and I'm glad that you’ve found me on 7 Cups of Tea. I am a trained active listener and like to help people who struggle with depression, anxiety, and eating disorders, but also have experience with psychosis and dissociative disorders. I enjoy just about anything outdoorsy but always find my way back inside for a good book. My dog and I love taking on new adventures and are here to support you with challenges you’re facing. As someone who has been touched by these issues, I am here as an open ear to listen and chat with you about the struggles you’re working to overcome. If I’m offline, go ahead and message me and we can set up a time to chat. Just know you are awesome and courageous for being here!
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Sparklingshadow
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Just a piece of dust trying to figure out its purpose. I've had my personal struggles and life felt unbearable at times but i thrived my way out and in that process I realised the importance of having someone to talk to. So here I'm to offer something that i received once.
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Rooshra123
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When people let you know and talk about their pain, take off your shoes. It is a holy place. When someone shows you weakness, be humble, be kind ~Amani Albir Gohar • Let events flow in their predestined path, and do not sleep except with a clear mind between the period of the blinking of the eye and its opening, Allah changes things from one state to another. ~MindfulMuslim
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Hello, I hope you are doing well. If you are going through difficult times or worries, I hope that I can provide some comfort for you by listening to you. Finding a path to peace may not always be easy, but I hope to take part in this journey with you. 🤗
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Rainbow0598
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I m here to listen you, without any judgement. 
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Selenne
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•My apologies I’m not taking live chats currently. I do reply to offline messages• Hello lovely people! I’m a verified listener who will listen to you with compassion and without judgement. You’re not alone in this beautiful community of 7cups.  I do not respond to messages that only say “Hi” and I’m not here for casual chats. When you contact me, please mention the issue in brief so that I can decide if I’m the right listener for you.                                      ✔️I am able to offer you emotional support for these categories: General mental health, Weight management, Exercise motivation, Managing emotions, Relationship stress, Financial stress, Family stress, Social anxiety, Sleeping well, Self esteem, Work stress, Student life, Parenting, Breakups, Bullying, Grief.  ✖️I'm not the best listener for you if you want to talk about: PTSD, sexual abuse, self-harm, depression, disabilities, drugs/alcohol use.                                     I look forward to hearing from you. Have a wonderful day!          
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sweetWriting46
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Welcome to 7 Cups. Life will Go on.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        
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Tara Davis

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I have worked successfully with a wide range of difficulties. Nothing is more important than developing a warm, compassionate relationship with someone you can trust
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soulsings
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Sorry if you are a member or guest looking to chat, I am not currently accepting new personal requests for chats. You can browse for a listener. https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ . You may also find these helpful https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php     https://www.7cups.com/supportGuides/selfHelpGuides.php Some people find that mindfulness helps them cope. The video Resource Library https://www.7cups.com/forum/mindfulness/ResourceLibrary_1062/2016presentMindfulnessVideos_72071/ If you might consider a paid text therapy on 7cups, then this may be of interest https://www.7cups.com/forum/therapy/General_2432/ExcitingNewFeaturefor7CupsOnlineTherapyandCoaching_319430/ The other resource is various therapy topics  https://www.7cups.com/experts/catalog/topics/ All the best to you. Again sorry I cannot help you but my personal workload does not allow openings for that at this time.  
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Ahlex
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Please read at least first paragraph before messaging me! Welcome, I'm glad you're here!  Topics I DON'T take: career & financial stress, politics, religion, spirituality, cheating, polygamy, labels (sexuality and gender), chronic pain, disability issues. I am also happy with casual conversations or to keep you company!  Or if you want some funny/cute YouTube videos. Things I have experience in: relationships/people, depression, alcohol and drug addiction, apathy, violence, managing emotions, narcissism, guilt, kinks, incest (consensual), night terrors, parenting, anger issues. Things I DON'T have experience in: break ups, dating, anxiety, lack of motivation, dwelling on things, LGBT issues, being sensitive, financial issues, strict parents, seeking validation/approval, insecurities. My chat style: I'm very patient, down to earth, I try my best to understand everything and prefer a friendlier instead of a robotic approach, but am mostly practical and logical. I don't give fake validation or tell you what you want to hear. I never disappear mid chat and reply as fast as possible. I am also quite talkative, so you can feel free to ask me anything! ✰ I'm very direct and don't like to beat around the bush, so please keep that in mind if you are very sensitive. I prefer a tough love approach to life, if you get triggered easily then I'm not the listener for you. And don't be afraid to message me anytime even offline, I am very open and friendly!  About me: My name is Alexis but you can call me Lex or Alex! I'm not a female. I'm 23, a student. I'm very extroverted and active with a lot of hobbies and obligations! I train gymnastics, play the violin, design clothes, paint, run workshops and I'm a big fan of horror movies and have a lot of pets. I love to travel and learn new things, meet new people. I've been through a lot in the past so I have quite the experience with many issues and people. I'm happily married to my husband and am a proud parent. ✰I am fine with sexual, taboo and embarrassing issues as well, and won't judge you. But please don't make any advances towards me, ask me for my social media or demand a solution from me. I'm just a regular student doing their best, and not a licesened therapist. Thank you for reading, and I hope I can be of some help!  FAQ What's your gender really? - I get asked this so much. I'm male biologically but I just look like a woman. I didn't take any hormones and I'm happy this way. What's your pronouns? - It makes no difference to me, I do not care about such things. What's your sexuality? - I don't have one. I've only felt something for one person my whole life. Anyone else never interested me or will. And I don't see the point of labels. Why don't you take chats related to studies and career? - It's not something I'm really interested in or that knowledgeable. So it wouldn't be a good time for either of us. When can I message you? - You can message me whenever, and I'll respond when I can. But if you'd like a chat please ask me if I'm available first. Why don't you tell me what to do/give advice? - I'm not a professional therapist, I'm not the expert on you or your situation and it is against the site rules. So please don't demand answers or solutions from me. Can I ask you personal questions? - Yes you can, as long as you don't ask me information that could be traced back to me or reveal my full identity. Especially not social media.  
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