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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

goldenPassion8987
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I am here to listen and help you through. Talk about it, that's half the problem solved! :)
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halcyonCloud2036
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I'm here for you 🤗 My typical schedule (in EST) is: Monday: 9am-11am and 5pm-7pm Tuesday: 3pm-5pm  Wednesday: 9am-11am Thursday: 1pm-3pm
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KindnessMatters2020
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Sometimes you just need someone to talk to about something difficult, sad, frustrating, or emotionally-charged. I am happy to just listen or to help brainstorm solutions.  Besides being a verified active listener, my other roles here include: -Quality Mentor -Listener Coaching Team Mentor Leader -Safety Patrol Outreach Team -Verifier for Verified Listener Team
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SirenOfSerenity
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🚫⚠️ Topics I don't prefer are: Sexual Topics, Relalationship Stress/Breakups, Depression, Abuse, Self Harm, Addiction, PTSD or Casual Chats.  I lack personal experience with Depression, Abuse, Self Harm, Addiction, OCD, ADHD, BPD and PTSD. * My chat availability is 30 minutes to 1 hour maximum * You can view the topics I accept in my profile's "Categories" section 🪷  For Family Stress, I'm an only child with no siblings and I'm not a parent yet. So although I may have no relatable suggestions, I'm willing to listen 🩷 ------------------------- Pronouns: She/Her, Age: 29, Eastern Standard Time Zone 🇺🇲  You can call me Siren or Serenity 🪔 I am of Light, because I have experienced and gained wisdom from my "dark". You too, can shine your way through your darkness 🌤  ------------------------- 💌 3 Facts About Me: Originally from the Caribbean Islands 🌴 my zodiac sign is Taurus ♉️ sun with a Cancer ♋️ moon and my personality type is INFJ-A 🌙✨️
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Yengish04
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Hello, I'm glad that you found me on 7 cups of tea I love to listen to people and help them when they are stressed or feeling low because of any reason and it would be my pleasure if i can listen and help you in any way. Thanks for trusting me and sharing your problem :). It's a pleasure meeting you guys xD.
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LetsCherishLife
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(Deutsch: Siehe unten) I only take chats within my topics.  ​Urgency first: If you are facing an acute situation like a panic attack, etc., please message me. There's no need to read the rest of the profile.  Hello and welcome to 7cups. I'm a 28-year-old female from Germany, and glad you're reading this. I had and still have to struggle with some of the things I offer support with. I hope I can help you with some things based on my experience, professional university knowledge, and over six years of experience as a Listener here. I understand you well, and maybe I have suggestions, techniques, or skills to help you. For example, I'm familiar with living with chronic pain, self-harm (stopped a few years ago), and panic attacks. I also have non-epileptic (dissociative/conversion) seizures. I'd like to exchange experience about this anytime to possibly learn from each other in managing or getting them under control better. In the following, I will describe myself as a Listener and explain in what case I am the right one for you. If you select me as your Listener and I think there is a chance that I might be able to help, I will try my best to do so. If I had to describe myself as a Listener, I would say I'm primarily supportive, reassuring, and encouraging. But despite all my empathy and understanding, I still tend to be somewhat challenging. I assure you that you have my greatest support if you choose to work with me, and I will be here for you through whatever struggle you may face. My favorite saying I took from the saw movies, which I enjoy (don't worry, I'm not a creep), is "CHERISH YOUR LIFE," and I hope I can help you do that too along the way. Send me a personal request by chatting with me or leaving me a message if: - you want to learn to live better with chronic (physical) pain/ disease, especially such that gets worse in flare-ups, or you want to know how to best support a person close to you who suffers from this (1) - you want to manage daily life better with a disability that affects you or a person close to you (autism and ad(h)d included) (2) - you want to quit self-harm (3) - you want to cope better with panic attacks and possibly get rid of them (4) - you want to talk about psychological, non-epileptic/ dissociative seizures (PNES) and possibly gain better control of them or talk about any other kind of dissociation or dissociative or psychosomatic disorder (5) - you want to chat about (C)PTSD and how it affects your life and find coping strategies that work for you (6) - you want to chat about parenting: I don't have any own kids and not so much practical experience yet, but I'll probably be doing counseling for parents, especially for children with disabilities, in my future job, so I would like to test my skills on this here and gain some first experience. (7)    - you want to chat about guilt or forgiveness. I am curious about what they involve and I'd be interested in discussing them. Depending on the situation, though, I might decide that I am not the right Listener for you at some point. (8)   - you want to chat about a personality disorder (any kind). I am curious to learn more about it, how it affects people's lives, and how they manage life with it. Yet, I am not very experienced with this topic, so it would be more active listening than suggestions. (9) - you want to learn to manage, accept, and understand your thoughts, emotions, and psychological needs. (I might decide that I am not the right person depending on what they are related to, and the chat would be more focused on the thoughts, emotions, and needs themselves and identifying them rather than what causes them.) (10) - you want to chat about faith, religion, spirituality, etc. If you wish, I might share my beliefs, but I will not force them upon you. We can try to find out what you believe or how you could solve a conflict that, for example, makes you question your faith. (11) - you have general questions about mental health, want to figure out what's going on for you, what the next steps could be, what you could do to improve your allover well-being, or if you want to find out which topic(s) the right Listener(s) for you should cover (12) - you want to discuss something related to communication or violence/abuse (any form, active and passive position) to reflect on yourself generally or regarding specific situations, or you want to discuss how communication and violence are related. Depending on the exact issue, I might not be the right Listener for you. (13) - you want to ethically or morally reflect on or position yourself in general or regarding a particular situation. (14) - you want to change a particular generally controllable (own) behavior by analyzing causing and motivational factors and looking for different ways to manage these. I have the most experience with this method regarding self-harming behavior, but I want to see if I can apply it to other topics and behaviors as well (15) If you send a personal request, please start the chat with (a) code number(s) from 1 to 15 (which you see on the list, next to the thing(s) you want to chat about) to show you have read this. I do provide long-term support as well! Let me know if you wish that, so I can see what I can offer. I offer chats related to other topics like work stress if the focus is on one of the topics listed above, e.g. work-induced PTSD, communication and/or violence, or behavioral issues at work - own behavior only.  Please note: While I have my own and professional experience with some of these topics, I am not a fully trained professional. I am in education for a job where I work with people and help them, for example, through counseling. Still, here I am only a Listener and not a Therapist. That means I can't advise you on the ultimate solution. Yet, I am glad to provide suggestions where I feel it's appropriate and consider your options together if you want to. If I am offline (red), you can still message me, and I will get in touch when I see it. If I don't take your request, feel free to message me because I might have forgotten to log out, but I will get back to you when I see it. ​ Ich spreche auch Deutsch. Themen:     - chronische Schmerzen oder Beeinträchtigung bei Betroffenen und Angehörigen, - selbstverletzendes Verhalten, - Panikattacken, - dissoziative Identitätsstörung und dissoziative Zustände/ Anfälle oder andere dissoziative Störung, - Trauma (PTBS), - Genesung/ Erholung/ Rehabililitation von einer Verletzung oder körperlichen oder psychischen Erkrankung, - Erziehung/ Elternberatung, - Schuld und Vergebung, - Persönlichkeitsstörungen, - Umgang mit Gedanken, Gefühlen und psychologischen Bedürfnissen, - Glaube und Religion, - allgemeine mentale Gesundheit, - Kommunikation und Gewalt, - ethisch-moralische Selbstreflexion und Positionierung, - Verhaltensanalyse und -änderung (eigenes Verhalten), - Andere Themen dürfen gerne beinhaltet sein, solange der Schwerpunkt auf den genannten Themen liegt, z. B. Arbeitsleben: berufsbedingte Traumatisierung, Kommunikation und Gewalt oder (eigenes) problematisches Verhalten im Beruf. Ausschließlich andere Themen auf Anfrage, wenn sonst niemand für einen Chat auf Deutsch verfügbar ist. 
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ShadowFaerie
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Hi, I'm Faerie, 🧚‍♀️ & I'm glad you found me here on 7cups I would like the opportunity to "hold your hand" through whatever subject you need help with, whether light or heavy. I will take the time to listen, without judgement. I'm a verified listener here, in the "35+" age group, & I have experience working with adolescents & adults, (including LGBTQIA+), professionally, & in volunteer positions. I have experience with a wide range of topics, including family issues, relationship issues, dv, rape, abuse, painful breakups, disabilities, homelessness, chronic pain, addictions & other speed-bumps/road-blocks that life throws us, often when least expected. I enjoy cooking, reading, painting (watercolors and sometimes acrylic), writing creatively, being independent, having picnics outside, music (of all different genres) & sci-fi, among many other things. Welcome! I look forward to meeting you! "Our sorrows and wounds are healed only when we touch them with compassion". Buddha If my status icon is Red 🔴 I am currently unavailable and I will try to return your message as soon as possible but it could take a while. Please allow for up to 48 hours. If my status icon is Orange 🟠 I am busy with another member or with other roles here. I will return your message as soon as possible but it may take an hour or two If my status icon is Green 🟢 I am available and should return your message shortly Special thanks and cheers to my bubbly, energetic listener twin from down under @bouncyCandy4246 (bouncyCandy4246 is not currently taking new members)
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GregB19
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Gregory; Fitness, Hockey, Outdoor enthusiast, Construction Engineering, Caffeine addict, Gamer, Tattoos, Good times & Stellar vibes 🤙🏼 Forever down for that casual talk. * Please use full words when communicating with me. No short forms or abbreviations. Let’s keep them back and forth replies at a steady pace. You get out exactly what you put in✌🏼   
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allnaturalUnicorns70
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I'm an ordained rabbi (and verified LISTENER!!), from a secular upbringing. Every human has an important place in this world, which means... YOU ARE IMPORTANT!!!  If you're looking for an intelligent, kind and thoughtful ear, you've come to the right place!
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gentleWings66
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Hello! I'm Wings, and I'm here to lend an empathetic ear when you need someone to talk to.  As a  listener, I'm committed to providing a safe, non-judgmental space where you can share your thoughts, feelings, and concerns.  Whether you want to chat about life's challenges, mental health, relationships, or simply need someone to listen, I'm here for you. I'll listen with compassion and understanding, offering support and guidance whenever you need it. Let's embark on this journey of self-discovery and healing together. Feel free to reach out anytime you'd like to talk.If I am not online, please leave a message and I will get back to you as soon as I can.  Please note that I don't take sexual and LGBTQ topics. 
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Imransheikh
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Tempo di salutarsi !!!!! Vorrei salutarvi con questa bellissima canzone di Andrea Bocelli, Con te partirò https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ohXI3po8hK0 È difficile lasciare qualcosa che ami fare e vorrei dire che 7 cups era come una parte della mia vita, ma oggi lascerò questo forum per un bel po' di tempo. Ho trascorso così tanti anni qui e ho fatto del mio meglio per aiutare le persone il più possibile. A volte ci sono riuscito ea volte ho imparato una lezione. La vita ti dà sempre nuove lezioni, quindi sì, imparale al momento giusto, altrimenti dovrai pagare molto. Questa è la mia esperienza e prospettiva. Per tutte quelle persone che vogliono chiedere aiuto, qui puoi trovare molti grandi ascoltatori, quindi sì, vai da loro e non aver paura. Sono qui per aiutarti, quindi abbi fiducia in te stesso. Cerca di trovare un buon ascoltatore adatto a te. Tutti sono qui per ascoltarti, quindi non perdere la fede. Inoltre, non ho intenzione di rinunciare a questa cosa. Sarò sempre tra le persone che cercano di aiutare secondo la mia natura. Le persone non mi riconosceranno, ma farò del mio meglio per creare una differenza nella vita delle persone come ho sempre fatto o provato. Ultimo ma non meno importante, il mio profilo sarà qui come rappresentazione simbolica del mio lavoro. Non ero il miglior ascoltatore, ma voglio dire che ho fatto del mio meglio per creare la differenza e per imparare dalle esperienze delle persone e infatti l'ho fatto. Voglio augurare buona fortuna agli ascoltatori ea tutti coloro che stanno leggendo il mio profilo o cercando qualcuno. Ricordami nei tuoi desideri. Grazie molte. Saluti, Imran ********************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************* Sono un ascoltatore preparato e mi piace supportare le persone alle prese con stress da lavoro, problemi familiari, depressione, ansia di diverso tipo e problemi di tipo simile. Mi piace leggere libri, guardare film e fare cose creative come scrivere blog e storie bla bla. La mia filosofia di assistere le persone è molto semplice e vorrei usare le parole di "Chuck Palahniuk", dice che "L'irreale è più potente del reale. Perché niente è perfetto come puoi immaginarlo. Perché è solo idee intangibili, concetti, credenze, fantasie che durano. La pietra si sgretola. Il legno marcisce. Le persone, beh, muoiono. Ma le cose fragili come un pensiero, un sogno, una leggenda, possono andare avanti all'infinito. Se puoi cambiare il il modo in cui le persone pensano. Il modo in cui vedono se stesse. Il modo in cui vedono il mondo. Puoi cambiare il modo in cui le persone vivono le loro vite. Questa è l'unica cosa duratura che puoi creare. " Inoltre, ho intenzione di lanciare una ONG legata alla gestione dei disastri e spero di ottenere una motivazione da tutte le persone, specialmente da coloro che parleranno con me per dare un contributo in questa nobile causa. Se sono online, sentiti libero di avviare una chat e se sono offline, lascia un messaggio. Mi metterò in contatto con te il prima possibile. Ultimo ma non meno importante, vorrei da quelle persone, che parlano con me dei loro problemi, che dedicassero del tempo a scrivere le vostre gentili recensioni su di me perché non solo aiuterà le altre persone a capire la mia natura e inoltre sarà fonte di motivazione e ispirazione anche per me.
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Zebrasarcastic
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Hey! I'm so glad you're here, I'm not an expertise in anything just want to help someone in any way I can, because sometimes we just need someone to talk to. I'm rarely online so If I'm not around just leave a message and I'll get back to you as soon as I can or set a time. >Academy Mentor QLP >Verifier keep smiling :)   "In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on." Robert Frost
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