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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

SatyaSarthakKumar
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Hell'o everyone my name is Raven. I hope you find a great help here and feel free to connect with me on here . and if you have come till my profile . kindly leave a rating or review or a feedback
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positivitybean
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Sometimes 7cups recommends my profile to people when my status is set to offline. Unfortunately, I am only available to talk when it's either on green or yellow. Feel free to chat with someone else or message me if you are able to wait for me to come online later.    
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TannDee
L Discoverer 1 365
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Hello! I’m TannDee! 😁 I'm very excited to be a verified listener for both teens and adults!  I am a high school history teacher and a basketball coach in Texas. I love working with young people and helping them to understand themselves and their world. I also am a Christian man and see value in my relationship with Christ. In my spare time, I love playing basketball or volleyball, reading, hiking, playing video or board games, or just watching Netflix and relaxing at home. If it sounds like I could be helpful to you, please don’t hesitate to reach out to me! I am happy to listen and try to assist you through whatever life throws your way. Just for clarity: Green = I'm available! I'm open to starting new chats! Yellow = I'm currently talking with multiple people. I may still respond to you, but the response time will be much slower because the initial people will have priority Red = I'm unavailable! Feel free to message, but my response time will be much slower. 
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Kyoshi
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Due to personal reason on hiatus until further notice  I'm planet hd 18977 3b ✧✧✧ 𝓐𝓵𝓵 𝔂𝓸𝓾 𝓷𝓮𝓮𝓭 𝓲𝓼 𝓯𝓪𝓲𝓽𝓱, 𝓽𝓻𝓾𝓼𝓽 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓪 𝓵𝓲𝓽𝓽𝓵𝓮 𝓫𝓲𝓽 𝓸𝓯 𝓹𝓲𝔁𝓲𝓮 𝓭𝓾𝓼𝓽 ✧✧✧ I don’t have to be an expert I just have to care -------------------------  About me: Hello there! I'm Kyoshi (Kyo), my pronouns are they/them. I'm 25 years old and passionate about mental health. I strongly believe in self reflecting and growth because there is always space for improvement. •──────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•──────• Boundaries are an important aspect of listening, not just for me but also for you as member.  During our chats you will experience; - A safe space for you to vent and share; our chat is your safe space to talk about anything on your mind. What you share during our chats will stay in our chats. - A non judgemental enviourment; there wont be any judgement from me during our chats. Disclaimer: I'm not a professional, although I have knowledge on DID/OSDD and advocate for a better support system and safe place on cups for those with DID/OSDD(and questioning) I cannot provide a diagnosis, to be diagnosed with a Dissociative disorder you have to work with a professional that specializes in such cases. Thank you for understanding •──────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•──────•   Topics I’m comfortable with      -Dissociative Disorders  Dissociation  Dissociative Identity Disorder Other Specified Dissociative Disorder  -Trauma/PTSD Child abuse  Sexual abuse/assault Trafficking Ritual abuse Mind control Organized abuse Domestic violence Religious abuse -Family Stress  Parenting Foster care (also for parents who have children in the system) Also open to casual chat note: I only provide support on the topics mentioned above as I have personal experience in those and can relate to you. •──────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•──────•  Status Green: I am currently online and accepting new personal requests, my response time will be within a few minutes. Orange: I am online but occupied with other tasks on cups, either I'm already in a chat with someone or I can be found in one of the rooms. My response time can vary (5-15min) Red: I'm currently offline and not available on cups, please leave me a message and I will come back to you in 48 hours. •──────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•──────• Leadership roles -Group support mentor I help to strengthen and improve specific areas in the group support chats, if you have questions regarding group support you can reach out to me  -Chatroom Moderator (global) I help keep the rooms safe, supportive and inclusive! -Chatroom mentor  I help keep the listener rooms supportive and inclusive and I mentor listeners on their listener journey  -Chat support   I support listeners with difficult ongoing chats and answer listener journey related questions, if you need help with anything related to listening feel free to message me -Doorkeeper  I can open and close rooms, if you need to have a room open or closed please message me  -Safety Patrol I flag accounts that go against site guidelines, if you find an account that needs flagging please send me a message ------------------------- Helpful forum posts I have written everything below is clickable -Information on DID [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/DissociationRelatedDisorders_2335/DIDDissociativeIdentityDisorderexplainedandhowtohelp_254545/] -Differences between OSDD-1(a,b) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/DissociationRelatedDisorders_2335/OSDD1OSDD1aOSDD1bTheDifferences_263532/] -Different roles in a DID/OSDD system [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/DissociationRelatedDisorders_2335/TRIGGERWARNINGDIDOSDDAltertypesrolesexplained_263478/] -Information on religious abuse [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/ChildAbuseDomesticAbuse_601/triggerwarningReligiouschildAbuse_266210/] -How to support someone who experienced religious abuse [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/ChildAbuseDomesticAbuse_601/triggerwarningReligiousabuseandhowtosupportsomeone_266350/] -Fight and flight response [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/EventsDiscussionsResources_2334/FightorFlightResponseTriggerwarning_264481/]
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Jessgill266
L Advanced 3 352
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Heyyyy, I'm Jess and welcome to 7cups! I've been here for some time now and have never judged anybody and neither will i with you. Feel free to message me if you ever have any worries or concerns or are just lonely; I dont only have good ears but also a gentle heart.  <3          
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nod26
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Let's not forget to look in the mirror and have a good laugh about it. Take care, I'm here, friend. :)        
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chyni
L Expert 11 664
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“success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.” —winston churchill 🦋🦋🦋 IMPORTANT NOTICE 📣  UNAVAILABLE TO CHAT. unfortunately, i’ll no longer be apart of the 7 cups community as i’m leaving the site and my role as a listener. however, i’ll be popping by occasionally to check in with my long term members, and possibly to take new chats. what can i say, i really like helping people 🫂 i don’t think you’ll see me engaging in forums though. it was such a great pleasure meeting all the lovely listeners and members i have over the couple years. take care my friends 💜 — best wishes, chyni  ——— i am a trained and verified listener, my goal here while serving my time on the 7 cups of Tea site is to, provide a safe and non -judgmental space where you can be free to voice your problems, and be heard.  🦋🦋🦋 my leadership roles: verified listener peer support ( as a peer supporter, my role is to primarily offer emotional support through 1-on-1 chats with other listeners, regarding emotions and situations that can stem from member chats, group support chats, forum interactions with other listeners etc. ) NB: FOR LISTENERS ONLY! If you would like to discuss a personal issue, please switch over to your member / guest acc. before contacting, this is so to remain anonymous and to adhere to the 7 cups guidelines.  room supporter — depression support ( as a room supporter for the depression support chatroom, my role is to provide quality listening and support to the members in the chatroom )  forum supporter — motivation & accountability community / 7 cups academy ( as a forum supporter, my role is to maintain engagement in the forums by posting and replying to threads )  listener room supporter — (LSR) listener support room ( as a listener room supporter, i have many responsibilities, however, in a nutshell, my role is to primarily support the listener rooms ) 🦋🦋🦋
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stellaglaze
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Hi I’m Stella! I’m eighteen and a freshman in college, but I'm from LA. i love dogs and all forms of art, but mostly photography. my favorite music right now is dominic fike and phoebe bridgers!!
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smilinghooman
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So after helping ppl find their own answers to their problems someone suggested me to go online and try to ease what little pain I can. Hope to help you to the best of my strength. Making you smile is my ultimate goal. I am also a peer supporter now, so feel free to ping me whenever you want after a hard chat or in general as well. Don't hesitate. I am always here for you.                And I have completed my internship at 7cups with honors.              
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StargirlTina
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(Note: I’m currently not able to accept any members who personally reach out to me and I apologise for not responding instantly. However, I read all your messages and would try my best to reply as soon as I can! Update: As of now my schedule is really hectic and due to this and some personal issues, I'll be unable to listen to members much or be present in the community. I might however try to respond and check in every 2-3 months as possible.) Hey there! I am Tina,here to listen to your problems and to help you feel better! 💜💙💚💛🧡💖 Here is a good song dedicated to you!  https://youtu.be/BFkTu8Y1KLs Feel free to tell me about anything and know that I wont judge you! (I aim to help people get more clarity on whatever they are experiencing) "No matter what it is that you're going through, know that I'll always be here for you"  Your happiness means so much to me..🧡 Have a great day!  Lots of love and strength to you! (Ps: I am also training myself in CBT and incorporate it in chats in an effective way, building my listening style to make it even more helpful! ~) Y O U A R E    A M A Z I N G !! IMPORTANT: I do not take self-harm or sexual issues related requests and I am sure you will find a good listener for any such requests. My roles on 7cups: Peer supporter, Listener chatroom supporter, Been a quality mentor in the past, Also have been a Part of The Peer Appreciation Team, Listener Verifier Team and Anonymous Evaluations Team. Thank you so much for reading this!🧡 A special thank you and shoutout (with cookies 🍪) to my typo twin emo for the cutest gesture of making me a colourful pfp 💃🦋:∆  @emotionalTalker2260 (will be missed in the community greatly)   ~27/08/2022
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Cpcoleman1WSU
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Hi!  I’m Conner, a verified 6+ year veteran listener here on 7Cups! Safe to say, I think you'll be in good hands! I have 29 years of life under my belt and after the unfortunate end of a 7 year relationship with a young lady with a lot of trauma in her past I’ve about seen it all. I also sadly know what it's like to be cheated on. To help you better, please try and read as much of this as you can :) Help me help you!    I'd say that relationship and breakup support is probably my best specialty, along with college life. Dating, Jesus, pregnancy (including loss), sexual assaults, college life, and breakups are all things I'm happy to talk with you about! Please keep those in mind when personally requesting me; anything outside of those specialties I can try and help with but you may find better results with a different listener. I'm sadly not a psychologist nor psychiatrist, and won't be able to help much with any severe mental health-related issues.  Per 7Cups rules “I am obligated to make a crisis referral for active suicidal thoughts and behaviors.”   Interpret that as you will. More than happy to chat about life and hopefully get you feeling better. I'd hate for a beautiful person like you to choose a permanent option to a temporary problem! We have great resources here to help with that kinda stuff.   I am religious, so if you'd like to talk about Jesus feel free to reach out; if not let me know too.  I’m active fairly often both on PC and mobile so feel free to reach out! If I'm online, feel free to chat. That means things are slow.  If I'm busy, that can mean one of 2 things: 1st: I am literally busy and likely multitasking between 7Cups and my daily life. 2nd: I hit my request cap-I'll usually take about 5 requests then flip from Online to Busy so I can give them the attention they need. Feel free to message me anyway and I'll see if I can fit you into my workload  Expect 5-10 minute delays in replies. I'm likely literally busy, or with other members. If I'm offline, I'm either asleep, or just offline in general.  ->BUT, fear not :) Send me a message and if I'm not too busy I'm more than happy to talk with you   Other important things to know: -This is NOT a fetish chat. We can talk about intimacy-related issues, but it can't and won't go any further. -7Cups system is the one that asks you for a review of me so soon; not me. I'm not being greedy! Reviews greatly help though and I appreciate the kind words  -"Hearting" my comments helps me know when I'm helping you; feel free to use the button  -I'm on Arizona Standard time.  -Good English and grammar preferred too please... it makes it much easier for me to help you :P -Feel free to check out my song of the day  I post a new one each day I'm online!    Oh and Go Cougs!    
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Sunset316
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Hey guys! I'm glad you came to me on 7CupsofTea. I'm a listener here and I'm only here to help anyone who's in need. I've been in pain a long while back and I know how that feels. I know how it feels to know that no one is there for you. But guys, I'm here for you. Talking is always the best remedy to feel better.  ♥ I may not be able to solve all of your problems, but I promise you won't go through them alone ♥  ♥ I may not be available to accept general requests, but I always accept personal requests. ♥ If I'm online, I'm ALWAYS available to talk. But if I appear offline, shoot me a message and we can set up a time to connect :)  Why I became a listener: At first, I just wanted to pay back the community which helped me overcome some issues emotionally. But as I started to help out, I found out that I couldn't stop. I can't believe how fast I fell in love with this amazing community. Whenever I'm here, I feel a sense of peace. I feel like I'm making a difference because I know I made at least one person smile today. Somewhere out there, someone, whom I don't even know, smiled because of me. I may not have contributed much, but at least to someone out there, my words meant something. And that to me can't be compared so easily to anything else.   NOTE: PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE DO NOT MAKE SEXUAL PASSES/COMMENTS. Indeed it's incredibly embarrassing for me to have to even say this, but due to numerous repeated incidents, I have no choice but to say it upfront. While I'm here for anyone who wants someone to talk to, I would only like to be there as a friendly stranger and nothing more.  So please. NO MEANS NO. I'm normally not a confrontational person but I will NOT tolerate boundary violations.
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