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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

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Happy to listen :) Non judgmental
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"Not having to answer to anyone is the greatest freedom of all. Your words, F"  F: "I have to defend my own freedom. But you, no one will question yours." ❤️‍🔥 Tatts, 🐾s, and Snacks ❤️‍🔥 -no sexual advances or inappropriate content unrelated to mental health accepted.  No exceptions 
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Shadow
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**I’m unable to take new member chats at this time** Hello! Welcome to my bio ♡ You can call me Shadow. I'm here to offer a safe/nonjudgmental place to talk and I will do my best to support you. My goal is to give you that space and try to help you through whatever it is you have going on. I will not offer advice, as it can be harmful and only you know your situation well enough to make decisions on it, but I would be more than happy to help you come up with ideas on how to cope with things and manage your situation! I am so proud of you for reaching out <3 My listening style is more listening rather than talking. I am here to be your safe space and sounding board as well as be someone to stand in your corner and cheer you on. We can come up with ideas together to help improve your situation but ultimately you will need to make the final decisions for yourself. If you feel like I would be a good listener for you feel free to reach out! My response time is typically within 24-72 hours ♡ **Please note that I am only able to take support chats for 30-60 minutes at at time. Thank you. Topics I am comfortable with: ~ LGBTQ+, self-harm, PTSD/trauma and BPD. Topics I am *not* comfortable with: ~ Active SH/suicide (7cups is not a crisis resource, if you are experiencing this please reach out to crisis resources ♡︎), sexual health/sexual chats, religion/spirituality, relationships stress. My roles here: * * Global Moderator  * Chatroom Mentor * Chat Support * Peer Support * ML for Anonymous Evaluations * Quality Mentor * Doorkeeper ꕥ Have an amazing day! ꕥ
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BeTheLight111
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Sometimes you aren’t losing your mind, your life isn’t falling apart. Sometimes all you need is a calming cup of your favourite warm beverage, a meaningful conversation and a listening ear.
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MistyMagic
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I am unable to take on new chats from members right now. Please understand. I will be able to soon. So stay tuned!  "I am glad you have found me here at 7 Cups! I am happy to listen to you on many topics. I have experience in lots of different areas - anxiety, depression, and mental illness, families, and relationships, love, school, college, or work-related problems, financial stress, healthy living, food, and special diets, I can also offer support for chronic pain, illness, and disabilities. I am part of both the adult and the teen listening team, (and yes I can still remember being a teen lol) and I also offer long-term support to those that I can and who are in need. If I am not online then you are welcome to leave me a message -  but please tell me what you want to talk about so we can get off to a flying start. I will get back to you when I am next able, but please bear in mind that I get a lot of messages and I will reply to the most urgent first so if you just say hi, do you really just want a hi back? If you are a teen turning 18 soon then you can apply for one of the Teen Transitioning Team to reach out and support you through the transition from the teen side to the 18+ adult side.  The form is here ~~~> https://bit.ly/7CupsTTM If you have any feedback or ideas for the Disability Support Community then please fill out this form ~~> https://forms.gle/EJN1SX74mo6swPwN6  At weekends my response will be slower as that is usually my time off from 7 Cups, and I may not respond to any PMs or new requests till Monday. I  hope you understand that. We all need time for ourselves to recharge our batteries and relax.  ONE STEP AT A TIME "We all have different-sized footsteps that we leave behind on our journey through life. Sometimes we can change the size of our footsteps, the imprint, the impact, the direction. Sometimes our footsteps land on rock and they do not show, or they land on sand and stay for a while, Other times they get washed away by massive oceans or powerful waves. But each and every footstep is important in so many ways. Ways that we may not even know about. Watch your step, think about your steps, plan your next step, and the rest will follow."  Listening ... one step at a time Quote of Acceptance When we don't accept an undesired event, it becomes Anger, When we accept it, it becomes tolerance. When we don't accept uncertainty, it becomes fear, When we accept it, it becomes an adventure,  When we don't accept other's bad behavior toward us, it becomes hatred, When we accept it, it becomes forgiveness. When we don't accept other's success, it becomes jealousy When we accept it, it becomes an inspiration. Acceptance is the key to handling life well !! Butterflies are a symbol of hope that we can all change from a small brown grub into a beautiful amazing butterfly! One step at a time! "Those who never change their minds, never change anything!" (Winston S. Churchill) "Prepare for the worst, but hope for the best!"  (B. Disraeli) Pearls are a great symbol of the grace we create, for the oyster creates its greatest work of art from an irritant.
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PeacefulOnes
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NOTE: I am currently not available for member chats Welcome to my profile! I'm Jordan, and I volunteer as a Listener, Chatroom Mentor, Chat Supporter, and Peer Supporter on 7 Cups because I believe in our mission to provide a supportive environment to everyone in need for free. It can be a challenge to ask for help, but the fact that you're here means you've already taken an important step. My approach consists of empathy, validation, and reflection. I'm here to listen compassionately to your concerns without giving advice and help you sort out your thoughts. I usually limit my chats to one hour.  I expect that a mutual attitude of constructiveness will be maintained, so I kindly ask that you keep this in mind for the sake of common courtesy. Additionally, make sure to confirm I take chats related to the issue you wish to discuss. If you think I could be a suitable Listener for you, please don't hesitate to reach out to me. ------------------------- Be kind. Be gentle. Be giving. ------------------------- "That's me—sweeter than sugar." - Myself ------------------------- Listener Twin: @Positiveak
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free2118
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**** important!!*** as of right now I’m not taking any new listeners. i’m in college and figuring stuff out so it will be a while till i come back and am a listener! (for the ones i have continuously listened to i will still respond) Thank you for understanding:) Hello!!! i’m free2118. obviously not my real name but yes! She/Her and i’m 18 —————————————————————————— I used to use this when I was going through a hard time and the listeners were always there for me. So I want to do that with people too :) I hope I can be a supportive person and good listener to people!! —————————————————————————— I continue learning on this and hopefully can be able to help in a variety of topics, as of right now I am comfortable talking about: -ADHD -Alcohol/Drug Abuse  -Anxiety  -Bipolar.  -Borderline (BPD)  -Breakups  -Bullying  -Chronic pain  -Depression.   -Domestic Violence   -Eating Disorder  -Exercise Motivation  -Family stress   -financial stress   -forgiveness   -general mental health   -getting unstuck   -grief   -loneliness   -managing emotions  -obsessive compulsive disorder  -panic attacks   -parenting   -personality disorder   -PTSD    -racial and cultural identity  -recovery  -relationship stress   -self-harm   -sexual health   please feel free to pm me if a personal request and i will try to answer when i can. i try to answer really quick. but as always i don’t see messages all the time that fast. i will get back to you when i can(: ***** as of right now i’m not taking any requests except members i talk to consistently. if something i will answer the pm as soon as i can. thank you(: stay safe!******
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🙏🙏🙏🙇‍♂️🌻 । जय जिनेन्द्र । 🌻🙇‍♂️🙏🙏🙏 🙏🙏🙏🙇‍♂️🌻 Jai Jinendra 🌻🙇‍♂️🙏🙏🙏 🕉️ You are important and you have got this! 💙 And today is the first day of the rest of your life! 💖🪻🌸🌻 Don't get so involved into anything, that you forget to be ready for inhibitions... Inhibitions always be welcomed.... There is no way to control things to be so accurate that they get beyond the effect of karma on them... The more we are ready for inhibitions, the more open minded we become... ✨🌺🌻🏵️🌸✨ Everything is temporary so let it go, that bad feeling and negativity is worthless which doesn't let us observe, test and discover the good virtues in ourself and others and doesn't let us refine ourself! 💖 Pain is the final level of a game which is ofcource temporary and those who manage to live through it with spirit, THRIVE!! 💖 And ofcource in very simple words but very strong message - 💪🏻 No Pain No Gain 💪🏻 ~ My favourite Quotes ~ 🧡💛💜❤️💙 "If you want to walk fast walk alone, but if you want to walk far, walk together" Ratan Tata "Your beliefs become your thoughts, your thoughts become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habits, your habits become your values, your values become your destiny" Mahatma Gandhi  🏵️🌻🌺🌼🌸🪷🌷🌹🌻💠 "The average person thinks 60,000-70,000 thoughts every day, and 90% of those thoughts are the exact same thoughts as the day before. If you believe that your thoughts have anything to do with your destiny, if 90% of your thoughts are the same as the day before, then your life will stay the same. The reason that your life will stay the same, is that the same thoughts lead to the same choices; the same choices lead to same actions; the same actions lead to the same experiences; and the same experiences create the same emotions. By the same means, if you learn new information, wire it in your brain, and decide to use that information, you will naturally have new thoughts that lead to new choices. New choices lead to new behaviors, which create new experiences. New experiences produce new feelings and emotions, which influence new thoughts. That is evolution" 🏵️🌻🌺🌼🌸🪷🌷🌹🌻💠
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prashpal84
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I love interacting with people & will be very happy helping people deal with discomfort they are facing. I feel, talking to someone anonyms helps you open up to your issues & you get new perspective for your problems. I feel, mental health is more important than physical health & talking to someone definitely helps to improve your mental stability & can guide you in your decision making. (Dear Members, I work full time so my replies can be delayed at times but I do try to reply as early as I can. Also I generally don't take any 1-1 chats on weekends. Thanks for your understanding) My forum posts on 7cups: * * https://www.7cups.com/forum/PositivityGratitude_170/PositiveMessagesReminders_2231/BlockingReportingVsLettingitgo_276622/ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PositivityGratitude_170/PositiveMessagesReminders_2231/BlockingReportingVsLettingitgo_276622/] * https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerResourcesMockChatGuides_2381/AskingforReviewsFeedbackvsleavingtomemberstodecidewhethertheywanttoleavereview_257386/
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Hello! I'm Cat. 25 years from Buenos Aires, Argentina. Proud to be here helping as a Volunteer Listener on 7cups since 2018. Currently only taking chats on the following topics tags (Domestic violence, Family stress and relantionship stres -abuse cases-, LGBT, Women's and Men's Issues, PTSD/Dissociative Disorders). Only relantionship stress I discuss is related to abuse and violence. Topics:  Women's and men's issues CPTSD (Complex trauma), PTSD and narcissistic abuse Sexual abuse and childhood sexual abuse Domestic violence Toxic family system  LGBTQ community issues My role as a Listener and how I can help: Informating and educating about abuse Understanding and assisting in victims of abuse detecting what is right from wrong Emotional support for people who feel marginalised and alone Practical activities 
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    𝑯𝒊 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆! 𝑰 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒉𝒆𝒍𝒑 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒚𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝒘𝒉𝒐’𝒔 𝒈𝒐𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒉𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉 𝒂 𝒕𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉 𝒕𝒊𝒎𝒆. 𝑴𝒚 𝒅𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒎 𝒊𝒔 𝒕𝒐 𝒃𝒆𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒆 𝒂 𝒎𝒐𝒅 𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝒅𝒂𝒚 𝒔𝒐 𝑰 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒖𝒆 𝒎𝒚 𝒋𝒐𝒖𝒓𝒏𝒆𝒚 𝒐𝒏 𝟕 𝑪𝒖𝒑𝒔 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒔𝒖𝒑𝒑𝒐𝒓𝒕 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒏 𝒎𝒐𝒓𝒆 𝒑𝒆𝒐𝒑𝒍𝒆. 𝑰 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒖𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒓𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒚𝒐𝒏𝒆'𝒔 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒄𝒆𝒓𝒏𝒔 𝒂𝒃𝒐𝒖𝒕 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒊𝒓 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒃𝒍𝒆𝒎𝒔 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒃𝒆𝒕𝒕𝒆𝒓 𝒉𝒆𝒍𝒑 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒎 𝒔𝒖𝒄𝒄𝒆𝒆𝒅. 𝑰 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒃𝒆𝒆𝒏 𝒂 𝒎𝒆𝒎𝒃𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒇 𝟕 𝑪𝒖𝒑𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒂 𝒘𝒉𝒊𝒍𝒆 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒉𝒐𝒑𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒖𝒆 𝒃𝒆𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏𝒆. 𝑯𝒆𝒍𝒑𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒎𝒆 𝒃𝒚 𝒈𝒊𝒗𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒇𝒆𝒆𝒅𝒃𝒂𝒄𝒌 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒕𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒎𝒆 𝒘𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒊𝒎𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒗𝒆 𝒉𝒆𝒍𝒑𝒔 𝒎𝒆 𝒂 𝒍𝒐𝒕. 𝑰 𝒂𝒑𝒑𝒍𝒐𝒈𝒊𝒛𝒆 𝒊𝒇 𝑰 𝒅𝒐𝒏'𝒕 𝒓𝒆𝒑𝒍𝒚 𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒊𝒎𝒆, 𝒑𝒍𝒆𝒂𝒔𝒆 𝒃𝒆 𝒑𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒆𝒏𝒕, 𝑰 𝒗𝒂𝒍𝒖𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒔 𝒎𝒖𝒄𝒉 𝒂𝒔 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒚𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝒆𝒍𝒔𝒆! 𝑭𝒆𝒆𝒍 𝒇𝒓𝒆𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒎𝒆𝒔𝒔𝒂𝒈𝒆 𝒎𝒆 𝒂𝒏𝒚𝒕𝒊𝒎𝒆!! ⭑.ᐟ୨ৎ     - 𝑨𝒍𝒔𝒐 𝑰 𝒂𝒑𝒐𝒍𝒐𝒈𝒊𝒛𝒆 𝒊𝒇 𝑰 𝒅𝒐𝒏'𝒕 𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒑𝒐𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒅 𝒊𝒇 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒎𝒆𝒔𝒔𝒂𝒈𝒆 𝒎𝒆 𝒌𝒏𝒐𝒘 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒊𝒔𝒏'𝒕 𝒂𝒈𝒂𝒊𝒏𝒔𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝑰 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒎𝒂𝒚 𝒃𝒆 𝒃𝒖𝒔𝒚, 𝒐𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒕𝒂𝒌𝒆 𝒄𝒂𝒓𝒆! ᕙ( •̀ ᗜ •́ )ᕗ
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Hello! My name is Kay and I am a Community Moderator. I'm unfortunately not available for 1-1 chats.
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