honestOval1284
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Epitome 7
Rating
Number of ratings970
Number of reviews391
Listens toOver 18
LanguagesEnglish
Listener sinceJul 29, 2015
Last activein last week
GenderMale
PathStep 844
People helped3,003
Chats13,699
Group support chats25
Listener group chats40
Forum posts3
Forum upvotes3
Bio
Note: Please be polite. There's no need to be rude. Just want to emphasise that.
I've been on 7 cups since mid 2015. It's been interesting meeting a diverse range of people and getting to know more about the issues they're facing and their cultural background.
After a few years of research, I understand abusive relationships, so am able to help you more with that. Also, having experienced anxiety and depression, I can help in that area too. Specific topic where I've experienced pain... if you've had a counselor or psychologist that's been unprofessional towards you, or gave you the cold shoulder or ignored you after years of knowing them (as what happened to me), then we can talk about that kind of topic.
Also, I'm a big fan of music, and write my own material. We can talk about that too if that's what you love too. Other interests: Travel, sport, photography, philosophy.
Cheers,
A good book on abusive relationships: http://humanmagnetsyndrome.com/
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Feedback & Reviews
Very helpful and a great listener
Nice listener :)
Patient and responsive listener
Good listener !
He is a good dude
A good listener
This listener is so understanding and helped me so much. Very gratefyl.
They were kind and listening
somehow help me relieve my relationship stress. And also hear some information from man’s perspective, really help me a lot.
Good Listener 👍🏻
A good listener 👍
A nice person,and good listener
Good listener. Its like talking to a friend. Was able to relate to the topic at hand
Was a good listener and polite. Was willing to discuss my issues as well as provide friendly discussion to help me.
A good listener, very patient and supportive. Could relate to what he said.
patient, listens well :)
Asked helpful questions, wasn't judgemental of some things I don't usually talk about. Thank you.
S/he is a good listener and she's so understanding. I appreciate you!
Really very kind and empathic listener. I felt better after taking to him
Nice and honest
Honestly they understood me a lot because they went through the same thing ever so grateful
Great style. Listens well and tells you the truth
Very good listener
attentive listener
Had a really good chat this afternoon
The best listener, super helpful!
Listens good and communicates great!
Empathetic listening
Amazing person really helped with my issue and listened I recommend.
Good listener
He was really helpful asked questions to know about situations
Got alot from the chat, the listener is good and quit helpful,he relates alot and follows through
Great!!!!!!!!!!!
Very kind, helped me relax. Thank you :)
He is good listener sometimes you only need someone to listen
Patient and really supportive
Great and wise friend, I enjoyed chatting with him.
Good listener. Makes you feel heard and understood.
kind listener who understands the situation
He's a great listen and a real honest oval
Good listener listen to me and try to understand
Provided a different perspective than I was able to see myself and helped me work through my thoughts without telling me how to think or feel
All ears to my problems. Give the best solution to help me out :)
Good listener and sometimes provide suggestions
Oval was probably one of the kindest listeners I have ever spoken to. They were very open and honest with me, and this wasn't just the typical robotic conversation you can find on here sometimes. 10/10 would recommend, thank you so much for all your help!
A nice person who puts in efforts to listen to you, asks questions and helps you think and reflect. Thank you for listening to me. The chat helped me feel lighter. ❤️
Oval is the type of listener that you'll feel like talking to a friend with him. It felt like having a coffee with a friend and talked about many things for hours.
Great listener. Appreciate it
Great listener
Good listner, engaging , patient
HonestOval is really helpful. he/she helps by asking valuable questions that force me to think from different perspectives. I learned something valuable and I think thats going to be helpful for me in the long run.
Great listener, and actually shares their thoughts.
He's a good listener.
Very kind and compassionate listener.
The listener gave me attention and tried to engage the best they can for a generous amount of time. Sharing their similar personal stories gave me a sense of trust and empathy. The sense of humor goes a long way in taking the edge of how serious life is. Thank you.
Listened patiently and asked relevant questions. Thank you
Listened really patiently about my problems ~
Amazing listener. Grateful for the chat.
Great listener, asked questions that made me feel like they were taking in what I was saying
Great listener who has helped me a lot with one conversation! Highly recommended
Really good listener.
Very helpful! Listener was patient and thorough.
Very good listener.
Gives time to talk and is patient and rational.
Good conversationalist, fun to talk to
He is a nice person to talk too
Such a good listener. I appreciate him
Good listener, patient and takes their time. Listened to me for a very long time and very appreciated.
Well explained
Very gentle and wise listener. I felt lifted and relieved after talking. Thank you so much
Pays very keen attention to all you have to say. Very kind and considerate
Great listener, very helpful
Provides great feedback and answers! I felt listened to :)
good starting conversation and listens
Super kind, super understanding, very lovely and seems like an amazing friend to have
Great listener who truly cares and is open to chat.
He's very empathetic and one of the better listeners on here. Awesome.
I really needed someone to talk, and he actually listened to what I needed to vent about
thank you so much for listening
Nice person :) to talk to
Great listener thank you
Comes from a place of inquiry. Knows when to respond and when to just listen.
Thoughtful and professional volunteer talks things through to help you work things out together.
This person is kind.
Very sweet and kind
Great Listener and no matter how ridiculous what I said was he kept going along with me.
Extremely intuitive and very empathetic listener. Honestly one of the best listeners I've found. And He manages it while being extremely real too!
Good chat nice thank you
So patient, easy to talk to
Listener was great, thank you very much for listening.
The best listener here, he is so patient and kind... thanks !!
Really good listener.
Thank you. You're so kind
Patient and helpful.
Cool guy, very engaging
Amazing listener
Good listener, asks great questions
Wonderful, kind and understanding listener.
He is a nice listener
Great conversation
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