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Number of ratings41 Number of reviews10 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceNov 20, 2014 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderMale PathStep 480 People helped76 Chats478 Forum posts5 Forum upvotes1
Bio
Want to find that special girl for you? Want to make your current relationship a healthy one?

What I do:
I help guys with the frustration they experience while struggling to find that special someone to spend their life with.
I help men find and establish healthy committed relationships.

Who I help:
Guys looking for relationships.
Men who have trouble finding first dates or landing second ones.
Guys who want to avoid being friend zoned.
Guys who have trouble keeping committed relationships.
Guys who are just starting new relationships or marriages.
I only help men age 23-30.

What I don't do/Who I don't help:
Although I can help you talk to women better, I don't do pickup artistry. I don't coach just to get guys laid.
Guys who just want to play the field.
Men with depression or significant emotional issues.
Guys with honesty issues
Men with angry management issues.

My Mission:
My mission is to help men dramatically increase their chances of finding long term relationships or create a healthy relationship from the current one they are in (newlyweds and new relationships).

About me:
Hello, I am a trained active listener and practicing life coach specializing in working with men.

In my teens and twenties I always felt insecure about myself, especially with regards to dating and the opposite sex. I remember going out on dates and just blundering: asking silly or inappropriate questions, asking to many questions, pretending to be someone I wasn't, over exaggerating, lying, you name it. I was clumsy, confused, and I felt foolish whenever I talked to a girl I was interested in. I made tons of mistakes while on dates and missed lots of opportunities to meet that special someone. Sometimes I would even think that I would never find the right woman or even worse, that I wasn't a good enough person and would never compatible with anyone!

I spent a lot of time learning about what woman really want from a guy, how to talk to women, and who I needed to be to attract the opposite sex. I learned that it was really easy to talk to women and that I only needed to be myself. I learned that most woman pretty much want the same things from guys any that any guy can be desirable to someone. Mostly I learned how to be a man a woman would want to marry.

Now I am happily married and my relationship gets better as time moves on. People used to notice that my wife and I were very affectionate after we got married and they would say things like "Oh, you are still in the honey moon phase. Just wait." But I have been married for four years now and we still act like honeymooners and I don't see that ending anytime soon.

Now I want to share my experience and knowledge with you. Let me help you find that special one!

Besides my personal experience, I bring a long history of helping others through active listening, a connection to empathy, communication skills, emotional intelligence. I've hundreds of hours learning about how the mind and people work (psychology), and about life, truth, and reality (philosophy).

Books which influence my coaching:
Real-Time Relationships
How To Win Friends And Influence People
How To Build High Self-Esteem
Psychology of Human Behavior
Mastery
Self Therapy
Think and Grow Rich
Becoming a Person of Influence
How to Talk to Anyone, Anytime, Anywhere
I Thought is was just Me
The Assertiveness Handbook
Tao ti Ching
One Hour Orgasm

As a life coach and listener, I help you to develop action steps, ideas, and strategies, to bring you closer to lasting love. I use various exercises, ask powerful questions, and sometimes offer challenging yet fun homework.

If you think we might be a good fit and you want my help just message me and we can figure out the best times to talk. My best times are weekdays 9a to 12p AZ Mountain Time.

I would love to hear from you!
Feedback & Reviews
He is very professional, attentive, responsive and helpful. I appreciate his help and wisdom. Recommend to everyone.
One in a million!
So kind and attentive. Took the time to listen and understand, very helpful.
Revelatory. Mirror on me. Amazing person:) Thank you
this conversation gave me a momentum to concentrate on difficult goals.
This is the best listener ever. Showed me the ways of thinking about the problem in a different way, and in general - helped to understand what is going on… And very, very, very professional and wise.
Very attentive and empathetic. Friendly and easy to chat with. Intelligent and skilled in a active listening. Good coach.
Very very helpful and polite
Very wonderful
Top bloke. He's very thoughtful and understanding and you'll come away from a chat feeling that it was time well spent.
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