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Oxatnik
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Number of ratings63 Number of reviews15 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceMar 22, 2016 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderFemale PathStep 101 People helped98 Chats165 Group support chats3 Listener group chats6 Forum posts144 Forum upvotes166
Bio
I can't promise to help you solve all your issues but I can promise to listen to all of them.
Feel free to talk to me about anything. It’s ok to feel alone but that’s why I’m here... so you can have company whenever you feel alone. 

To fellow Listeners looking for a Listener Twin, I’m an ISTJ-T Logistician.


Leave me a message and I’ll respond as soon as possible.


NOTE: 
I don’t handle LGBTQ and Religion related chats as I feel I’m not equipped to help in those departments.
Recent forum posts
What grounding techniques do you use?
Depression Support / by Oxatnik
Last post
 September 9th, 2021
...See more Whenever you feel anxiety building up, what are some of the things you do to help you calm down?
Trouble accessing Chat rooms!
Site Updates / by Oxatnik
Last post
 September 26th, 2021
...See more I’m having trouble... no scratch that! I can’t access any chat rooms using the app after the update. 😔 This is a real hindrance!
Grief Support Community
Site Updates / by Oxatnik
Last post
 January 24th, 2021
...See more Hello everyone! Why can’t I find the Grief Support Community in the Communities? I’m using the phone app. Was it removed or something? If it was, what was the reason?
My Mum turned 70 this month!
Anxiety Support / by Oxatnik
Last post
 August 30th, 2020
...See more Mums ❤️ Birthday was last week and shes been sick for a few years but I did my best to make her happy on her special Birthday and had lots of surprises for her from myself, friends and family. She enjoyed herself despite the other health issues. I on the other hand... didnt enjoy it very much. Maybe it was the fact that she turned 70 during a pandemic or that she turned 70 and the last time she walked was shortly after her mid 60s Birthday. 😕 Weve been taking every precaution considering were dealing with a deadly virus and shes in the high risk category but suffice to say, my anxiety levels are through the roof! I try not to show it to her but sometimes I cant hide it. I have a hospital visit in my future (Monday) and given that I hate hospitals, thats not helping either! But hopefully (I cant believe I just wrote that!) all will go well. Oh, who am I kidding? 😐 Of course it wont! Either way... wish me luck! 😏
Still standing so that counts for something, right?
Depression Support / by Oxatnik
Last post
 October 13th, 2019
...See more Hi! Im Oxa! So this and last year havent been exactly good years for me and Ive had one or two close calls but here I am! Thats something to celebrate I guess. Id taken a break from here but Im now back! Having depression can suck the life out of you but I believe that together as a community, we can breathe new life into each other! 😊 I look forward to getting to know all of you! 🖤
Frustrated.
Depression Support / by Oxatnik
Last post
 March 21st, 2019
...See more So my Mum has been down for a year now. We dont exactly know whats wrong with her. Shes on treatment but it doesnt seem to be helping. 😩 Ive also not been working since the year begun so the piling expenses and too much time on my hands for my monsters to consume me finally took a toll. Yesterday, I did something I hadnt tried in 8 years. I wanted to gently go to sleep and never wake up and I almost achieved that. Almost. Someone called to check up on me and noticed I sounded funny on the phone so they came home and... here I am. Yes, Im aware Im posting this using my Listener account, no I dont need help, yes, Listeners have problems too. Stop presenting us like were robots who arent supposed to feel anything unless were signed into our member accounts! Anyway, I feel so helpless not being able to help my Mum in any way whatsoever. Shes always been my rock and now that rock is crumbling and I dont know what to do. 🥺🥺🥺
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Feedback & Reviews
Great insight, really wonderful listener
A very sweet and authentic human bean. :)
A kind and helpful person. Patient and considerate. Excellent listener.
Very cool person! Thanks!
Very cool person! Thanks!
A great listener. Very empathetic. Grateful.
A good listener, had a good talk
Kind listener. Available to me at really late hours in the evening.
They helped me SO much, thank you so much
Amazing person
a lovely person who helped alot
very thoughtful and incisive
She's the real Batman err Batwoman
Great help.
Oxatnik was a great listener, made me feel really comfortable.
Categories
Depression
Anxiety
Sleeping Well
Chronic Pain
Social Anxiety
Loneliness
General Mental Health
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