Should I stay at a job that I hate?
Anonymous
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Jan 22, 2020
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I know this situation far too well. I've worked at my workplace too long and am stagnant - not learning anything new, or growing in any way whatsoever. The social environment between a lot of my coworkers is toxic as well. However, I have to stay because of the money. That being said, I was able to reduce my shifts and can say that less contact with that place has done me wonders. In my opinion, if you can afford to leave your job and find another one relatively quickly, I would do it. It is not worth the damage to your mental health that comes with showing up to a place you dread. If it feels like you are unable to leave your job, look for other options just in case - maybe you're missing another opportunity. I'm working on changing my situation and giving myself alternatives right now. You can do it too!
Angell
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Feb 7, 2020
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1.Do you have any other alternative opportunity or option to take up if you let go of the job?
2.Why do you hate your job? 'if' it pays good, are there things that you could change a bit and you would be okay with the job without changing it?
3. Do you need the job or are you doing it out of any other reason? If you need it, will you be able to easily get another job with a good payment option to fulfil your needs and requirements?
Just some questions you should consider. Doing a job you hate must have multiple reasons, I would suggest you decide what your priorities are regarding taking up the job and doing it for as long as you have done it. and if you have options and better arrangements to do you can definitely leave the job. But remember if it is about starting a new thing or something it will require time and efforts and if you are sure yo can give that then surely you can go for it.
hope this was helpful.
Jing2010
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Feb 14, 2020
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Until you find a better job, yes. As soon as you find another job, bid the horrific one goodbye and start your new adventure. Leaving a job without having one lined up is setting yourself up for depression and anxiety as you receive all the rejections that usually go along with searching for a new job.
Definitely look for a new one though, because it isn't worth being miserable. You owe it to yourself, your coworkers, your family, and even the people you currently work for to move on. When you do find the job that you love doing, you will probably look back and see why that former job you hated was needed to get you where you are.
OnceEveryDay
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Feb 15, 2020
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There's no reason in the world not to look around! Polish up a resume, search online, consider all options. Would you move for a job? Is the benefit of a change greater than a fear of taking that leap? Even if you don't find the job that you want in your area, or you don't find the salary you need to justify that change, you'll know where you stand, and you'll know that the job you're doing is the best option or best-paying "for right now," and nothing stops you from looking around at the options again a month later.
kindDreamer9743
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Feb 22, 2020
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It's probably not the best option to stay in a job you hate as this can lead to other complications such as stress anxiety and depression (speaking from experience) your quality of life will deminsh and so will your self esteem. Lets face it there's hardly a job out there that gives 100% satisfaction but it doesn't stop you from looking elsewhere to better yourself either monetary wise or health wise if you drop lucky you get both! The best thing to do is continue to work there whilst you press on looking for your next move and just imagine the day you hand in your resignation on move on!
bellarina74
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Feb 22, 2020
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Staying in a job you hate is the beginning of the end. Ultimately, you spend too much time in the work place to not enjoy your chosen profession. Not enjoying your work can lead to you not caring about what you are doing, taking leave days unnecessarily and being resentful to your coworkers and your superiors. Being honest with yourself and knowing what you want to do or be in your working life is so important as there are a lot of working years ahead of you. If you are unhappy there are options to either change jobs or do some training in what you are really interested in.
queenofmeowtown
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Mar 4, 2020
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It depends! I think people are quick to say "quit your job if you hate it" but sometimes there are other factors to consider. For example, I wouldn't recommend quitting without another job lined up because not knowing where your next paycheck will come from can be seriously stressful if you have financial responsibility. At the same time, if you are being treated badly or abused, that's a completely different story. In most cases, the best approach is to quietly look for a new job while continuing to work your current job. It can take some time to make progress on this but it's the safest route. Be careful not to let your current employers know that you're looking for something else as it can make things worse at work. Ultimately if you're unhappy at work, it's the place you spend the most time, so if there's something you can do to improve things for yourself, it's worthwhile.
JacoEM
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Apr 17, 2020
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Ideally, not. But sometimes the answer is not that easy. If you are struggling financially or other people depend on your income a more measure approach may be needed. First, try to identify why you hate it and see if there's anything on your possibilities to change it. Second, evaluate if this is a temporary hate or is truly something that won't be gone, sometimes some holidays or a switch in the routine helps. Now, as for the change, it could be worth evaluating if there's a possible movement within the company to another department that does not have what you hate. Or if it is about the whole company, you may want to lock down a job somewhere else before quitting. Lastly, if you really hate it and your true purpose is somewhere else something different is implied. If you know that purpose, then it may be a question of how to get there. If you don't have one, well, it may be time to start exploring other worlds. At the end, don't stick to a job you hate unless it is for survival, but remember that no work is a paradise and you'll have to deal with something on each one.
Anonymous
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Apr 23, 2020
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I think you should not stay at the job you hate, because that’s not you. You shouldn’t do something you don’t like. Also, if you really need the money stick with it, but also try and look for a new job. A new job, a job that you like, will make you happier. It will make your day better. Don’t stick with a job you hate. Life is about living and being positive. I don’t think I could do that with a job I hate. So a new fun, like able job would be what I would do, to brighten my future.
Anonymous
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May 1, 2020
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I would find a job you are content with while working at your old job. This will secure you in still having a job while working at the one you hate. Just make sure the job you find pays greater or equal than to your last job. If you find finding another job that is difficult, maybe ask yourself why do you hate your job? And find ways to make it a better place to work. Listen to your coworkers, find similarities rather than differences. You might find things out that may catch your interests and build new friendships.
CalmCourage
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Jun 10, 2020
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It's a difficult one, isn't it? I had a job I didn't particularly love or hate but I knew I wanted something else. So I started that something else as I was still working and used the work that I hated/disliked as motivation... it allowed me to dig deeper than I would've before. Using that almost anger constructively and using it to pull me towards what I really want. It will be a constant reminder of why you are working towards something else. At least that how it was for me. Look into things that may interest you and see if you can learn them as you do your job then pivot. I would say :) Hope this helps!
Anonymous
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Jun 17, 2020
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It sounds to me like your puzzle over this. I would never advise anyone to be part of something they absolutely hate or feel uncomfortable with, but you know yourself best and only you can give yourself the answer your seeking for. Some very good questions to ask yourself is why your still working a job you hate and do those reasons still hold value? If so how can we make you hate your job less or how can you make yourself feel more at ease while working there or how can you make yourself feel safe?
Rebeccapersoncentred
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Jun 19, 2020
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I would say first of all ask yourself why you are still in this job. There could be good reason, it is not always easy to find a new job, or one where the hours or pay suit your needs. There will be other jobs out there for you though. It is really tough to do a job you don't like, I have been there myself. I would suggest thinking of and perhaps writing down the pros and cons of staying in your current job. Work out what you want from a job and what job that would be, or what environment if it is more the people / setting that you don't like. This should give you some options of what you do want - that job will be out there, it just requires some work to get there. It will be worth it, you will be a lot happier if you go for it.
Lils03
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Jun 28, 2020
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It’s always difficult when working at a job you hate. It can be really stressful and you have to do what’s best for you in these situations. Will the benefits of staying outweigh the drawbacks of leaving? These are some questions to consider. I think it comes down to what works best for you and what will be better for your mental health in the long run. You may grow to love your job or find it easier to leave and get a new one. It’s up to what you think will be easiest and suit your needs best.
amiablePond7294
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Jul 2, 2020
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Do you dread waking up and going to work? Do you feel like you are working to your full potential at this job? Can you see yourself there for any longer? If you answer these questions as "no", it would not hurt to look for another job while continuing to work there. Many people look on the job market to see if there are any positions opening up so they have a cushion in case they decide to leave their current job. It is a difficult decision to make, one that you have to ultimately choose on your own. I wish you the best of luck!
Anonymous
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Jul 12, 2020
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This needs to be considered in many ways. If the job pays a lot of money and you don't spend a lot of time on it every day. I think I can keep your current job because the money can support you to do other things you like. Try changing locations or companies to see if the work environment or company culture is making you feel uncomfortable. If you don't like your job, it is tiring, takes up most of your time and the salary is not ideal, it is recommended to change jobs. Happy is doing what you like, happy is making a lot of money, depending on which side you need more to meet your needs.
lunaalistens
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Aug 14, 2020
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think about how you would feel at that job in the next 5 years. explore your options and recognize why you hate that job and if you can change that mindset. while exploring options figure out whether you would be happier at another job rather than your current one! take the time to reflect on all the major parts of this decision. but don't frustrate yourself! also, how would you feel leaving that job, satisfied? put it into multiple perspectives on how you would feel at another job versus how you feel at the current one. do what's best for you.
Anonymous
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Aug 21, 2020
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There are many pros and cons in regards to staying at a job you don't like. I think it's important to assess what you don't like about your job and acknowledge the pros and cons of staying vs. leaving(maybe write them down on a piece of paper/whiteboard). This could help you come to a better understanding. Some things to consider are how this would affect your financial situation. If you quit, do you have enough money to support yourself while you find a new job? Also, if you choose to quit, it is very important to leave on good terms so that your future endeavors are not hindered.
However, your happiness is the most important. Staying at a job that you don't like can make you feel sluggish and dreadful. While there are certainly things to consider when quitting, like the stuff I mentioned previously, I believe it's important to prioritize your overall well-being. Enriching your life with things you enjoy makes things a whole lot easier.
Ask yourself this: "Is it worth the money to stay at this job and deal with the physical/emotional/mental drainage?" If you find yourself saying "no", then I'd say leave. If you need the money and are able to deal with the job physically/mentally/emotionally, I'd say to find a way to stick it through while job hunting whenever you get the chance so that you have opportunities lined up.
caringBerry61
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Sep 26, 2020
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I would first ask myself why I hate my job.
I would make a list of things that I dislike about it. And at the end of it another list of things I like about my job.
A job is not just a series of tasks you are paid for.
First try to make a list of different factors making your job "a job" such as:
the tasks you have to accomplish;
the general work environment;+
you own workspace;
your workmates you have to share some or all your task with;
the workmates that you are in contact with on a daily basis for reasons unrelated to your specific job;
the workmates that you aren't in contact with on a daily basis you meet occasionally;
the people who have some power over you like your direct boss and so on;
the means of transportation you use to get to work;
the working shifts, from what time you must go to work until when you have to leave.
Make a list of everything is related to your job and try to find the needle in the haystack.
Perhaps you believe there's only a specific reason why you dislike your job but through this list, you could also find reasons are others.
Evertonest
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Oct 16, 2020
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No. Being unsatisfied with your job can be bad for your mental health and relationships. Ideally, try and get into a job that you would actually enjoy and find meaningful, or at least a job you would not hate. You may need to upskill yourself by taking courses to become qualified for the job you want first. Do not quit your job until you successfully landed a job that you would enjoy. But if you have absolutely no other choice, then I am inclined to say yes, because you need a way to support yourself financially. I hope you find a better job soon.
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