Should I stay at a job that I hate?
CalmCourage
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Jun 10, 2020
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It's a difficult one, isn't it? I had a job I didn't particularly love or hate but I knew I wanted something else. So I started that something else as I was still working and used the work that I hated/disliked as motivation... it allowed me to dig deeper than I would've before. Using that almost anger constructively and using it to pull me towards what I really want. It will be a constant reminder of why you are working towards something else. At least that how it was for me. Look into things that may interest you and see if you can learn them as you do your job then pivot. I would say :) Hope this helps!
Anonymous
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Jun 17, 2020
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It sounds to me like your puzzle over this. I would never advise anyone to be part of something they absolutely hate or feel uncomfortable with, but you know yourself best and only you can give yourself the answer your seeking for. Some very good questions to ask yourself is why your still working a job you hate and do those reasons still hold value? If so how can we make you hate your job less or how can you make yourself feel more at ease while working there or how can you make yourself feel safe?
Rebeccapersoncentred
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Jun 19, 2020
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I would say first of all ask yourself why you are still in this job. There could be good reason, it is not always easy to find a new job, or one where the hours or pay suit your needs. There will be other jobs out there for you though. It is really tough to do a job you don't like, I have been there myself. I would suggest thinking of and perhaps writing down the pros and cons of staying in your current job. Work out what you want from a job and what job that would be, or what environment if it is more the people / setting that you don't like. This should give you some options of what you do want - that job will be out there, it just requires some work to get there. It will be worth it, you will be a lot happier if you go for it.
Lils03
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Jun 28, 2020
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It’s always difficult when working at a job you hate. It can be really stressful and you have to do what’s best for you in these situations. Will the benefits of staying outweigh the drawbacks of leaving? These are some questions to consider. I think it comes down to what works best for you and what will be better for your mental health in the long run. You may grow to love your job or find it easier to leave and get a new one. It’s up to what you think will be easiest and suit your needs best.
amiablePond7294
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Jul 2, 2020
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Do you dread waking up and going to work? Do you feel like you are working to your full potential at this job? Can you see yourself there for any longer? If you answer these questions as "no", it would not hurt to look for another job while continuing to work there. Many people look on the job market to see if there are any positions opening up so they have a cushion in case they decide to leave their current job. It is a difficult decision to make, one that you have to ultimately choose on your own. I wish you the best of luck!
Anonymous
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Jul 12, 2020
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This needs to be considered in many ways. If the job pays a lot of money and you don't spend a lot of time on it every day. I think I can keep your current job because the money can support you to do other things you like. Try changing locations or companies to see if the work environment or company culture is making you feel uncomfortable. If you don't like your job, it is tiring, takes up most of your time and the salary is not ideal, it is recommended to change jobs. Happy is doing what you like, happy is making a lot of money, depending on which side you need more to meet your needs.
lunaalistens
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Aug 14, 2020
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think about how you would feel at that job in the next 5 years. explore your options and recognize why you hate that job and if you can change that mindset. while exploring options figure out whether you would be happier at another job rather than your current one! take the time to reflect on all the major parts of this decision. but don't frustrate yourself! also, how would you feel leaving that job, satisfied? put it into multiple perspectives on how you would feel at another job versus how you feel at the current one. do what's best for you.
Anonymous
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Aug 21, 2020
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There are many pros and cons in regards to staying at a job you don't like. I think it's important to assess what you don't like about your job and acknowledge the pros and cons of staying vs. leaving(maybe write them down on a piece of paper/whiteboard). This could help you come to a better understanding. Some things to consider are how this would affect your financial situation. If you quit, do you have enough money to support yourself while you find a new job? Also, if you choose to quit, it is very important to leave on good terms so that your future endeavors are not hindered.
However, your happiness is the most important. Staying at a job that you don't like can make you feel sluggish and dreadful. While there are certainly things to consider when quitting, like the stuff I mentioned previously, I believe it's important to prioritize your overall well-being. Enriching your life with things you enjoy makes things a whole lot easier.
Ask yourself this: "Is it worth the money to stay at this job and deal with the physical/emotional/mental drainage?" If you find yourself saying "no", then I'd say leave. If you need the money and are able to deal with the job physically/mentally/emotionally, I'd say to find a way to stick it through while job hunting whenever you get the chance so that you have opportunities lined up.
caringBerry61
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Sep 26, 2020
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I would first ask myself why I hate my job.
I would make a list of things that I dislike about it. And at the end of it another list of things I like about my job.
A job is not just a series of tasks you are paid for.
First try to make a list of different factors making your job "a job" such as:
the tasks you have to accomplish;
the general work environment;+
you own workspace;
your workmates you have to share some or all your task with;
the workmates that you are in contact with on a daily basis for reasons unrelated to your specific job;
the workmates that you aren't in contact with on a daily basis you meet occasionally;
the people who have some power over you like your direct boss and so on;
the means of transportation you use to get to work;
the working shifts, from what time you must go to work until when you have to leave.
Make a list of everything is related to your job and try to find the needle in the haystack.
Perhaps you believe there's only a specific reason why you dislike your job but through this list, you could also find reasons are others.
Evertonest
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Oct 16, 2020
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No. Being unsatisfied with your job can be bad for your mental health and relationships. Ideally, try and get into a job that you would actually enjoy and find meaningful, or at least a job you would not hate. You may need to upskill yourself by taking courses to become qualified for the job you want first. Do not quit your job until you successfully landed a job that you would enjoy. But if you have absolutely no other choice, then I am inclined to say yes, because you need a way to support yourself financially. I hope you find a better job soon.
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