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Should I date one of my co-workers? I really like them.

Profile: mysteriousWillow50
mysteriousWillow50 on Apr 8, 2015
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Personally, I advise against mixing the work place and the personal life. Even though you may like someone, what happens if the relationship doesn't end well? You don't want the work place and personal lives mixing up and causing potential issues. It's understandable that you like someone, but at the same time don't want to upset your work-personal life balance.
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 17, 2015
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It can be high risk. If the circumstances are that you will cannot avoid seeming them, hearing about them or having to talk to them then If things don't work out, getting over them can be really difficult. If a painful breakup means you don't see the person again then "recovery" is a lot easier. If they are going to be around in your work life then it can be really difficult. I came close to changing job in this situation.
Profile: PoliteOcean
PoliteOcean on Aug 25, 2015
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Only you and the person you wish to be with can make the choices that are best for you. Make sure you both discuss all avenues of the pros and cons of having a relationship while also working together. Discuss what and pursue what you feel is right for you.
Profile: ColtTom
ColtTom on Aug 28, 2015
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That fully depends on the company policy on fraternization between students. I would advise being knowledgeable of the rules on that. However, if you find out you are allowed, if you like them, it is always good to initiate contact.
Profile: ImLittleM
ImLittleM on Nov 16, 2015
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Dating co-workers can be hard. If you really like the co-worker, that is great, and you should go for it. Make sure that dating co-workers is allowed in your workplace first, and make sure they dating the co-worker will not interrupt your work ethic.
Profile: sweetDay98
sweetDay98 on Dec 21, 2015
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Dating a co-worker can be a really tricky situation, if not handled well. Ensure you are aware of the company's policies of office dating, as some organizations do not permit it. Also, it would be a good idea to think of all possible things that could happen if you date someone at work. For example, in the event things don't go as planned, you'll need to bear in mind the awkwardness that'll be attached to that person, since you've dated them. If you have set all things in mind, ultimately, it's your decision if you want to date the person or not. It's best to weigh all the pros and cons before doing so, as your career is involved.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 13, 2016
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Without knowing the whole situation this is a hard question to answer. I would first check your employers policy in their company handbook. Second, recognize your ability to separate work and pleasure when in the workplace. It will be important to stay professional. And third, keep in mind that if it does not work out you will still have to see that individual while you are at work. There is not a standard answer for this question as every situation is different. But I believe being true to yourself and your values is a great place to start.
Profile: Theresalwaystomorrow
Theresalwaystomorrow on Feb 7, 2017
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Really reflect the pros and cons of this. Also did you originally sign agreement not to date a coworker. If so remember the relationship would have to be a secret. But if you are going to date and then break up there will be a lot of awkward tension.
Profile: avanef
avanef on Aug 7, 2017
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Depends on where you work and what the rules are there. Some places you aren't allowed to date co-workers. Next, talk to this co-worker about how you two both feel about each other and seeing if you would like to date, provided you are allowed to. Just be careful really. but yeah, if you like them and want something more, go for it! Just be careful and know the things you need to know before doing so.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 18, 2017
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I cannot offer you the correct answer in the form of a definitive yes or no. The decision is simply yours. However, before making such a decision I feel that one should not do so out of haste or baser instincts. Your co-worker may very well be the one for you, and nobody is to argue that choise within yourself. Simply consider the repercussions that purusuing such a relationship may have on you professionally, emotionally, socially, and as well realize how those considerations may affect those around you in the same aspects. Nobody is to tell you what is right in your life, but there are many areas to consider when making such a decision.
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