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How not to sound weird when talking to authority?

Profile: WaterLilyListener
WaterLilyListener on Feb 1, 2018
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When speaking to an authority, remember that they are trained to serve a diverse community. No issue is too small or too big. Stay calm and collected. Be as articulate as possible.
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Profile: jupitermoons
jupitermoons on Feb 15, 2018
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Be confident. When talking with someone’s who older than you, they often come to respect you more if you speak to them as if you were a peer. Don’t be cocky, though. Stay polite and respectful.
Profile: SamSammy12
SamSammy12 on Feb 16, 2018
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When talking to authority, make sure you stand tall and be mature. It goes a long way when an adult is able to have a conversation and they think that you are acting professional and mature. It's always a good thing to do.
Profile: Pumpkin74
Pumpkin74 on Feb 28, 2018
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When talking to authorities it can feel a bit overwhelming. I think the best way to not sound "weird" is to remember they are just like you and I! Also, a lot of times we judge ourselves on conversations and although we feel they didn't go so well, usually they did! Try to just take a few breaths and keep in mind that we are all just human :)
Profile: MarcGM
MarcGM on Feb 28, 2018
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Realise ta that authority is a person too, that wants people to like them and treat them as a fiend. If it doesn't seem so it's because they are too scared tat they won't be in control because they know deep down there is no reason you should obey them, other than whatever consequences they can impose on you.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 1, 2018
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It helps to remain calm, even if you disagree with what they may be saying. Depending on how you feel about authority, whether irritated, frightened, etc., it can help to remember they are people, too, and will appreciate civility and an honest connection. Being respectful, regardless of what you may feel in the situation, is always a good way to get your point across or pass the situation.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 15, 2018
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First thing is to keep it simple, don't compensate for nervousness or ramble on. Don't try to act smart, if a question was asked answer the question in precise detail and fact
Profile: Joyfulsmile
Joyfulsmile on Apr 26, 2018
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Smiling not only makes your voice more pleasant to listen to, it also conveys confidence... You will appear friendly, approachable, and composed.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 26, 2018
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Prepare beforehand. This reduces the anxious feeling because you'll know exactly what you need and want to say. Confidence is also key. If you're confident, it will feel better.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 27, 2018
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Talk confidently, just say it. If you can't, you'll need to work on your self-confidence first. Otherwise you'll keep feeling that way.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 29, 2018
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It can be helpful if you plan in advance what you want to say to them and practice, whether that be saying what you want to say in front of a mirror a few times or practicing some role play scenarios with someone who you are comfortable with talking to.
Profile: Unfazedcouchpotato
Unfazedcouchpotato on May 10, 2018
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Make sure to use proper language rather then improper but at the same time keeping it sutle when you use it
Profile: Briwes911
Briwes911 on May 12, 2018
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The way i would try not to sound weird is to just listen and dont be invasive .. people who want to talk will give the information they want to give so dnt pressure them to give up more then they would like
Profile: MintedTea
MintedTea on May 24, 2018
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Sometimes people feel awkward talking to authority figures in fear that you'll say something stupid. The best thing to do is take a deep breath and take a step into their shoes, imagine how you would feel if you were that authority figure while talking to you. That's what I do whenever I get too scared to talk to someone, and it actually really helps me.
Profile: CreativListener
CreativListener on Jun 7, 2018
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I have struggled with talking to authority figures and learned to practice deep breathing before a meeting. If I encounter an interaction on the spot, I remind myself to take my deep breaths quietly while putting on my neutral, slightly smiling face. By doing this I calm my nervous system and I tend to talk with more clarity.
Profile: tranquilSnowflake15
tranquilSnowflake15 on Jun 9, 2018
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When talking to authority remember to always be kind and respectful to your elders. It says a lot about your character
Profile: KawaiiKoda
KawaiiKoda on Jun 9, 2018
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Be confident. Authority isn’t there to hurt you or make you feel bad, authority is there to help you in learning a lesson or important information.
Profile: RedVase1234
RedVase1234 on Jun 17, 2018
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Just try to relax and do your best to communicate clearly and directly. Remember to speak in your usual level of volume, and try to remember not to speak too fast.
Profile: PellaG
PellaG on Jun 22, 2018
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Always say Ma’am/Sir and do not use slang or curse words. Be respectful and kind and most of all be yourself.
Profile: EvaEar
EvaEar on Jun 24, 2018
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Be a leader, not a boss or a dictator. Help the people that are following your lead to succeed, use other people’s skills to your groups advantage, and don’t be afraid to ask for help!
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