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Why does my girlfriend cut herself?

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Anonymous on Feb 3, 2018
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The reason why people cut themselves are very varied. But mostly I think it is because we can't express feelings or can't feel anything.
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Anonymous on Feb 7, 2018
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Sometimes, people do these things to make them feel something. But, cutting themselves isn't the right way. You could confront her about it and tell her you're there for her through this and you will help her get help, if she wants it. There's no accurate reason for people cutting themselves, sometimes it's because of their traumatic past, sometimes it's because they feel so numb that they want to feel something. It's different on every person.
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Anonymous on Feb 7, 2018
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There are many reasons people self-harm. It can be a way to cope with strong emotions like being overwhelmed. It can be a way to feel real instead of numb. It can be a way to punish yourself or to feel pain. It's different for everybody. Have you tried talking to her about it?
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InFairness on Feb 16, 2018
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she may be struggling to express herself,or is thinking that what she is feeling is wrong. I would attempt to give her the space in order to properly express herself.
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Anonymous on Feb 20, 2018
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There could be a number of reasons, but it might be because she feels alone, scared or unloved. Maybe you should talk to her about it and figure out her reason. Everyone is different.
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MissesOliver on Feb 23, 2018
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I think it is important to understand that most people do not cut cut in any relation to those that love and support her. There are a variety of reasons why people do the things they do and it is important to have a talk with her but only when she feels ready.
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heartfulloflove04 on Feb 24, 2018
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You should really talk to her to see whats on her mind and see if she's doing okay or if she needs any sort of help from you!
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Thegirlwhowrites101 on Mar 1, 2018
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There a are many reasons people do this, maybe she thinks something is her fault or maybe she hurts on the inside. All you can do is be there for her.
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penelopecelia on Mar 4, 2018
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People cut or self-harm for many different reasons. Your girlfriend may be feeling low, unworthy or hopeless, any range of emotions that lead her to self harm. People often turn to self harm as it turns internal pain into a physical thing, they may believe they deserve to hurt themselves and/or if they feel numb, they may self harm as a way of forcing themselves to feel a strong sensation in that very moment. It is important to have an honest discussion with your girlfriend, to let her know that you are there to support her and that you won’t judge her for her self harm. Try gently asking her questions about her emotions and thoughts about her self harm if she is ready to discuss this with you. But most importantly show her you care and are willing to listen whenever she needs it.
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WantToHelpp on Mar 9, 2018
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I’ve cut myself before. When I did it, it was because I had so many thoughts in my head. I needed to concentrate on something. Or it was because I wanted to control the pain I was feeling. So I would recommend asking her what’s wrong and try to empathize with her.
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