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Profile: Jasmineh2000
Jasmineh2000 on Jul 12, 2015
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let him ignore you, if he isnt going to reply to you why waste your time trying to get a reply, when he wants you he'll message you theb you ignore him back to prove a point
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Profile: KateK8Kate
KateK8Kate on Mar 25, 2016
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Feel the feelings. It's okay to feel scared, sad, annoyed, angry, or anything else you feel because you are human. But what you do with those feelings is important! Calling or texting constantly probably won't help and might even make you feel worse. Channel the feelings into something else, like watching a sad movie, punching a pillow, or cuddling your kitty cat.
Profile: amiableTree17
amiableTree17 on Dec 11, 2016
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Maybe send him a message and let him know how it makes you feel when he is ignoring you. It can feel isolating when we are ignored, it's good to speak up for yourself and let him know.
Profile: Katheryn
Katheryn on Jun 14, 2015
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Talk to him! He is your boyfriend, so you two obviously care about each other and maybe even love each other. Seems like you might need to have a conversation about the fact that you feel like he is ignoring you and how that makes you feel. The only way to find out what is really going on is to talk it out, honestly, openly and respectfully.
Profile: dreamweaver76
dreamweaver76 on Jun 19, 2015
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When your boyfriend is ignoring you, DO NOT push him to talk. That may only make matters worse. Give him some space and give yourself some time to think over why he might be ignoring you. If you know why he is ignoring you, think about what you may have done wrong to empathize with him. But the number one thing to do is give him a little time to cool off, as well as yourself so you don't say something you don't actually mean. Then tell him how you feel when he does that in a calmly matter and ask him if he wants to talk about it.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 31, 2015
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You should get him jealous. Get all over another guy. There is no way he's going to see you with a guy and not react to it. And if he doesn't he isn't the one.
Profile: SaraMichelle
SaraMichelle on Dec 31, 2015
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Tell him how you feel. If he respects you enough to change his ways then he's good but if he doesn't change then it may be time to let him go.
Profile: skin
skin on Jan 31, 2016
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If he has been behaving odd lately and started to avoid some situations or conversations, including you, then it would be the best to approach him in the right way. That means that you are not supposed to show any impatience or negative additude, since it will make the situation even more harder to solve. Maybe if you leave him with his own thoughts , and give him some space and time, it will be easier for him to tell you his ''bother'' later. When someone doesn't want to tell you something, in most cases, it means that they don't want to hurt you, but it is however not fair to bury the feelings and events that caused the lack of attention. Depending on the situation, the best case would be to stay aside and let him tell you what he feels you should know in particular moment, but after some time, with proper words and approach, you should start to insist on the explanation of his.
Profile: Flair30
Flair30 on Feb 12, 2016
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The best answer I can think of is to communicate how it makes you feel to him. Dont be angry or upset in your tone of voice. Simply say "When you _______ it makes me feel ________ because." (Fill in the blanks) and sit down and have a good conversation with him. Tell him that you need to be heard and that you need to know that he cares and respects you.
Profile: 2cupsofteaa
2cupsofteaa on Sep 24, 2016
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Communicate! Ask him why he is ignoring you and perhaps you might find that he did not mean to? E.g. Life can get pretty busy sometimes.
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