What should I do when my boyfriend ignores me?
Anonymous
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Oct 2, 2016
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Wait for him to come to you . He probably needs time to cool off . Most guys would like their space.
cloe123112
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Dec 8, 2017
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Anonymous
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Aug 15, 2015
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Try communicating with him, tell him openly how you are feeling, and what you perceive his actions to be. Best case scenario, he won't have meant to ignore you. And worse case scenario, he now knows how you are feeling and you can hopefully work forward from there!
Greatlistener87
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Dec 25, 2015
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Tell him that you understand that he needs the space and time and that you are ready if he wants to talk. Then give him the space and time to come back and talk to you.
Anonymous
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Mar 13, 2016
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You should find out why he ignores you and if he gives you a second shot at it and ask him what he thinks and what behavior your doing that is making him ignore you.
JK8287
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Mar 18, 2016
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There's a funny trick you could do, which is say to him "Why do you love me so much?" At first it might throw him off, but then he'll realize he does! Remember that demand destroys love.
Aventurina
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Jun 19, 2015
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This is really down to your personal character... There is no 'One Way' to do, that which guarantees that it will give you the attention that you might be wanting from your boyfriend there and then. But, there a couple of experiments you might like to try to see what way is the best way to get through to him.
Perhaps when he finally decides to give you the attention you deserve, you can try calmly letting him know how ignoring you made you feel, and if you both could find a way how to better communicate to each other what is happening the next time that it happens. Like for example: you can try going up to him jumping up and down next to him, basically be annoying...until he would HAVE to look at you.
Another experiment which you can try which is on the borderline of passive aggression is to ignore him in turn..on purposely.. until he would 'beg' you not to, and then ask him how that felt... basically letting him know that you feel the same way when he ignores you.
Perhaps you can even try looking into what he is doing when he's ignoring your. Is he playing a game or studying for something important. Perhaps you could both discuss on setting a time where he could give you the attention that you need.
Again the best way is to find the time when you are both quiet together, and speak about how behaviour makes you feel. Together try finding a way of what you can do when this happens. :)
Do honour the emotions that arise inside of you when you feel ignored, you need not be ashamed of it. When discussing discuss the behaviour rather than attacking him for who he is.
assglanimals
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Aug 7, 2015
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You shouldn't worry too much, he is probably ignoring you because he is very busy and doesn't always have time to reply immediately, he's a human too.
PoliteOcean
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Aug 9, 2015
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If you are in a relationship where you feel you are being ignored, then you need to be honest with that person. You should feel you are able to talk with them and ask them why they are ignoring you. If there are underlying issues in the relationship then its time to talk to one another, together and evaluate the relationship that you are in.
Peacefulmeditation
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Aug 13, 2015
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Don't take it personally. Relax. First, explore your mind to see if it is your own perception causing you to think that he is ignoring you.
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