What do I do if my husband and I can't agree on how to raise our children?
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Moderated by Anna Pavia, psicologa psicoterapeuta psychotherapist psychologist counselor
Updated: Mar 24, 2020
Skittledpinkcupcake
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Dec 6, 2014
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Communication is always the key to a healthy relationship. Yes, your relationship with your husband is just as important as it is with your children. Make a list of situations that you are most concerned about, waht would you/he do, if you both have conflicting ideas try and express exactly why you chose your decision, and he should do the same. Remember to us the words "i feel" "i think", when expressing, this lessons the feeling of being belittled. Hope this helps! I know this response may be geared towards a small piece of raising. I took the question as more of what to do when disciplining.
Funfloor
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Apr 25, 2015
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Well That is a serious issue.
As I have not walked a day in your shoes, I am not able to give you any specific advice.
PoliteOcean
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Sep 7, 2015
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This can be difficult. And most couples should discuss this before having a family. However if it wasn't, then perhaps you could seek the advice of a family therapist or counselor to help. Or sit down and talk and make a list of the the things you agree and disagree on. And start from there.
allnaturalUnicorns70
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Aug 29, 2016
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Not agreeing is not an option. Parents need to be a united and loving team. If compromise is not an option, an objective 3rd party might be able to help you find common ground. Mutual respect and appreciation for each other and your respective views are critical.
Anonymous
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Apr 16, 2018
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Find common ground and build from the basis that you both want what’s best for the child. Compromising is a huge part of marriage.
miraculousHeart73
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Apr 24, 2018
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Couples counseling is always an option! Or you could sit down, write what you would like to do, and compromise. It might be frustrating in the beginning, but overtime you will have good communication between each other.
endearingLion70
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Jun 4, 2018
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It is for the children benefit that both parents will agree at least on the main things or at least compromise
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