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What can I do when I'm really angry at someone but can't immediately leave the situation?

Profile: Neeka
Neeka on Oct 23, 2014
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When I am angry, but am unable to escape the situation, I start distracting myself. I think of things that can serve as an immediate escape from the circumstances. The most important thing I have learned while being angry is to "shut up." Not in a rude way, but the fact that it is easier and more effective to stay quiet than get worked up into an outrage.
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Profile: Ashumi
Ashumi on Sep 13, 2014
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When angry, one tends to say a lot of hurtful things they don't really mean. Prior to reacting due to your anger, ask yourself 3 questions: 1) Is the situation worth my wrath? 2) Should I knowingly hurt the other person? 3) What will getting angry achieve? Will it make the situation better?
Profile: Tabaqui
Tabaqui on Sep 15, 2014
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Take a deep breath, look them in the eye, smile, and do not allow your anger to influence your actions. You will regret it later. Remain calm and get to the root of the problem.
Profile: Brettlstar
Brettlstar on Oct 23, 2014
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I once learned a great skill.... take Seven slow steady breaths and with each breath, allow your self to relax a little. the situation won't change but the way you react to it will. Sometimes this is all a situation needs for it to collapse and return to something civil.
Profile: Pandette
Pandette on Nov 18, 2014
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This all depends on you, but you can always try to close your eyes and take a few deep breaths. That way, you don't necessarily need to reply to the individual who is making you angry, and by closing your eyes, you can visualize something that makes you happy! Have you tried any methods to calm your anger before?
Profile: ShreyS
ShreyS on Sep 23, 2014
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Its sometimes really tough for me but with the passes of time I have somehow learned how to control my anger in different situations. Sometimes praying relieves me to control my anger.
Profile: Vapori
Vapori on Oct 21, 2014
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If you are really mad at someone, here is a tip for calming down before you snap at them that has helped me in the past :). First try to recognize that you are angry and when you do you have a short span before the amygdala in your brain powers up and you blow up at them and cannot stop. When you feel yourself getting angry try to take a deep breath and focus on your head and the rage that is building and let it flow through you without allowing it to hit the center. You will feel mad, sure, but at least you will not let it get the best of you. Hope this helps someone cheers
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 17, 2015
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Close your eyes and begin to practice deep breathing!! Take a minute to refocus your thoughts on something that is calming.
Profile: lettuceredboots
lettuceredboots on Oct 23, 2014
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just keep quiet and shut your ears off in your brain and continue doing your work without saying a word
Profile: redwhispers
redwhispers on Oct 25, 2014
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Think about what you have already said to the person. Have you been rude or possibly offending the person? If so, this can never help if you or the person you are experiencing the situation with are angry, because if you reply with something that could offend them, they might do the same, and it would just cause an uproar of hatred towards each other. Consider apologizing and breathing exercises, walk a step in their shoes and try to see from their point of view.
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