I find myself thinking of people as useless and tedious. What's wrong with me?
CounselorMattHere
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Oct 12, 2017
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There is nothing wrong with you. We all range in our feelings towards others, however a quote that reminds me of this is " Bear in mind how others trreat you is a reflection of them and not of you." . Which brings me to question, what is there about you, that makes you feel like people are useless and tedious?
Anonymous
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Nov 11, 2017
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There is nothing wrong with you. It might be that you are more introverted and need to take time away from others to recharge enough for more interactions.
xenabeeena
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Nov 22, 2017
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Surround yourself with good people. Maybe you haven’t met the right people for you to share your life with.
CaringCat94
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Nov 22, 2017
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It's ok to feel like that. We can't always get along with everyone and sometimes even little things can irritate us. Perhaps you're not feelinf very good about yourself at the moment either?
Anonymous
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Dec 6, 2017
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Nothing is wrong with you. You may have experienced something in the past that as made you believe people are evil. Try to overcome this by finding someone who understands you and you can get close to. Tell them how you feel and let them offer you advice and support.
Anonymous
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Dec 30, 2017
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Nothing is wrong with you. Maybe you feel that way because people have failed you in the past, or there are more than enough times where you have been hurt by them. Maybe you have found a sense of individuality that lets you stand up on your own. It is great that you have noticed your thinking about others and you have gauged the weight it imposes on you. What are you planning to do with it?
Telletots
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Jan 5, 2018
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Nothing is wrong with you, sometimes our brain plays games with us and makes us think things. Is there a reason you think this?
soulTaco29
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Jan 18, 2018
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Nothing is necessarily wrong with you (we all have jumped to conclusions on occasion.) We form opinions on most people we meet very early on. Though when our judgments are very harsh or particularly rigid, this can be detrimental to our relationships with other people (and ourselves by extension.) No-one is completely 'useless' or 'tedious' because we are all incredibly complex, multi-faceted beings. By looking for other (positive) traits in other people, we can open ourselves up to benefits that relationships with other people have. You do not have to be friends with everyone. But there are billions of people on earth, and chances are there will be someone who you will benefit from knowing.
Anonymous
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Mar 4, 2018
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If you're thinking others are useless and tedious, it might be because an event happened to you in the past or one that happened not too long ago that made you think that others are not helping and instead of positively impacting you it's making you worse if it continues.
FeelingTheSpace
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Jun 10, 2018
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While we can sometimes we overwhelmed by other people's demands, it's very important to understand what's our role in these dynamics. If I'm feeling annoyed by someone for long periods of time, a little bit of soul searching typically ends up revealing that the issue is actually within me.
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